I am not trying to critize anyone but have you ready some of the questions you post on here. Really do you not know if it is considered cheating???? Do you not know how to tell a bridesmaid to step down??? Do you not know how to leave your husband??? Does anyone else think that half the questions posted on here are no brainer questions and you should really know the answer before posting them?
2007-08-01 08:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by Va princess 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I not saying that all of these question are unjustified. I am just saying, that if you are going out on dates with another woman, then your cheating. And if you are mad at your bridemaid and don't want her in your wedding, then call her. I just think for those people that really do need advise or want to know something, it is not fair to see these types of silly questions on here.
2007-08-01 08:53:41 · update #1
Oh, these people know the answer perfectly well. But when you get obsessed with someone/something, you will not stop asking until one out of the 3000 answers you've gotten is the answer you want to hear. It takes only one answer to validate what you want to do, and it takes one answer to shut up your smart self and take a big plunge into a horrible mistake we know is a mistake but need to do it anyways because we have our mind set on it, and it also gives people chance to say "no, I didn't screw up, I did what people at YA told me to do, I didn't think it was so wrong".
2007-08-01 09:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's so easy to give advice, not so easy to take it, yes?
I'm sure that in each of our lives are issues that are clear as day how to fix from other's perspectives.
That said, the only thing that really annoys me is the ignorance and arrogance. I can handle the fear of leaving someone, or the lack of clarity of what is cheating (the internet sure makes that unclear for us all) or other situations, such as the bridesmaid...
but arrogance...I want to wring their necks, lol..if only I could reach through the computer sometimes.
2007-08-01 15:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some may appear dumb to you, but these are real concerns for people. Some people are blinded by love and cannot make that determination. This is a great place to get some outside advice from people who do not know anyone involved.
2007-08-01 15:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Scot P 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, they're no brainer questions, but morons keep asking in hopes that someone will validate their twisted way of thinking. They're not really looking for answers, they're looking for someone to tell them what they want to hear. This is beyond ignorance; it's just plain stupid.
2007-08-01 15:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that if the person feels the need to ask a question then that's their right. If you don't like it then do not sign in and use answers. Do not judge people unless Ye be Judged!
2007-08-01 15:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that any question is stupid. I just think people are a little blind about their situations and need an outside opinion. If you don't like it don't answer. What if someone called you stupid because of your mispelled words? That wouldn't be fair now would it?
2007-08-01 16:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It does not matter what i think this is a free country people can ask what ever question they want if i don't like it i don't answer.
2007-08-01 15:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of times, people are unsure whether they are doing the right thing, and want opinions.
hopefully they take what they need and leave the rest.
some of them seem 'dumb' i guess, but some people don't know what to do, especially when emotional.
2007-08-01 15:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Never under estimate the stupidity of some people
2007-08-01 15:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, some people are just dumb, and really lacking common sense. Most of those people will never realize it, either.
2007-08-01 16:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Holly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋