ex boyfriends new girlfriend messing with my daughter?

Question

so my exs new girlfriend is psycho she is constantly emailing me and saying mean things about me and my daughter who is my exs. she says things about my past and what I have done and posts pictures of my daughter on her myspace page and says that she is hers. she says she wants to come see my daughter but I dont want her anywheres near her after what she has said about her I actually believe that this girl has big mental issues from what she has said and done. she has a website with almost nude pictures of herself that talks about her liking skat and goldens (sexual) stuff and I dont want my daughter around her. but she says that my ex has visitation (which he does) and that she will come with him I dont want to stop my daughter to not be able to see her dad but I dont want her near this woman...any help would be greatly appreciated

doubt I can afford a lawyer...what in the world does that have to do with anything

I am asking because normally you can protect you children from things but its pretty impossible to do considering she is with him.

and yes I made the choice to be with him and have a baby but that doesnt mean that I give up the right to keep my child safe from someone who is abusing her by posting personal information about an 8 year old.

Answer 1

You need to tell the ex to make it stop. If he cares about his daughter he should do something. I would stop letting them take pictures or stop sending them to them so she can't post them anymore. I would demand that they be taken off of her myspace page since they have no right to be there. How long have they been together anyway? Just talk to your ex plainly, alone, and in a polite manner. He may be openminded and respect your feelings. Also, just say that she is not invited for visits. It is time between him and his daughter, not a big party. It is their bonding time and should be treated as so. Hope this helped.

Answer 2

Regardless of how long you were going with him, realize that everyone can take another person for granted. Don't beat yourself up over this. If you went out for a

long time, don't panic because you still have time to get him back. If you went out for a short time, you will have to move quicker before he sees someone else.

If you felt that 'the grass was greener' on the other side, you can explain that to him when the time is appropriate-"I wasn't thinking straight when I made that

decision," is short and sweet without hurting his feelings.

Keep in mind that romance comes and goes in all relationships; as long as you know this, you can realize what attracted you both together in the first place. The next

time around you will be able to cherish him in a different light and know that there are highs and lows in romantic feelings.

If you felt secure with your boyfriend when you were going out and really trusted him, this is half the battle when finding someone good for you. Getting an ex

boyfriend back becomes easier when you realize looks can be deceiving when your heart starts wandering towards someone else.

Gain his trust back by being honest with him. Ask him out to dinner and look your best. Wear his favorite perfume. Apologize sincerely. Put blame on yourself, like

your job, stress, etc. Don't tell him you were bored or fed up because he will take that personal and push away from you.



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Answer 3

This is why it's so important to pay attention WHO you are with when you're making a baby. You made a baby with a man who is stupid enough to have girlfriend on the border of mental illness - and who also likes goldens. Hmmmmm.

There's not much you can do. Your ex gets to do whatever he wants (within the law) when you daughter is spending court appointed time with him. When your daughter is with you - you don't have to let this woman anywhere near her.

What you CAN do is let your daughter know that any "bad behavior" she sees this woman practicing - is not acceptable or normal.

As for her e-mailing you - and such. BLOCK HER!! It's almost as if you're welcoming the controversy.

Answer 4

Been there!!!!!!!!!!! Go to the probate family court, request that you go before the same judge that gave your ex the visitation, take proof of any sorts regarding this psycho, and at that time reguest that this woman not be present during any of the visitations that the ex has, the judge will grant that request providing you have sufficient proof to back up your allegations, also run to the police station and listern good, bring proof and documentation and take out a restraining order against this woman for your daughter and yourself, but make sure that you put your daughter as the primary person needing protection from her due to her helpness against this woman.:) meaning your daughter is defenless against this pervert. God Bless and good luck, do this as soon as possible. Now the reason I say do this through the family probate court first is because they can usually do it faster, most courts will say that the child has to be directly involved with the person you are seeking the order against, you scream to the top of your lungs that she is directly involved with this woman because your ex has visitation and this woman is his girlfriend who is with him at all times, you know what I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do to protect your child.

Answer 5

Anonymously call your nearest child protection agency when your daughter has her visit and say whatever. This will generate a mandatory state investigation for 60 days that will involve all parties. I assure you that you have nothing to fear if you are a good mom. Restraining orders are usually granted following a crime of violence, so don't count on that. Don't allow your daughter to be subjected to such deviant behaviors. Better than nothing.

Answer 6

if you can the ex can still talk with out ripping each others throats out, maby tell him how you feel. show him the e-mails she is sending you. tell him all that you have said here. im sure he wants his daughter to be safe around her also. let him know what she is saying on her myspace page. explain to him that his new girlfriend makes you feel uncomfortable, and you would like him to look into her actions. if he is well aware of everything that she is doing, and does not care, then you might have to get it arranged thru the courts for him to have only supervised visits with his daughter. him alone, no girlfriend involved. best of luck to you.

Answer 7

girl take him to court and try to get supervised visits show the court some of those e-mails, phone messages and the web pages with your daughter and the naked ones as well. Also try to talk to your ex about the people he's bringing around your daughter. Good luck because if he is anything like my ex you will be talking until you drop dead and he still will act like he don't understand.

Answer 8

Get a restraining order against her. You should also talk to your attorney so that when he has the daughter, the chick cannot be around or he will lose visitation. The ex needs to make a choice, see his daughter without the chick around, or don't see the daughter. Make it simple for him because he must be rather stupid.

Answer 9

You need to tell your Ex that HE has visitation and not her. And you should take him to court and make sure that he is never allowed to have her around your baby.

They do this , it is legal. But that is why you need lawyer.

Save the emails and file a restraining order against her so she can't come around.

There are lots of avenues to protect your daughter. Just make sure that you save everything.

Answer 10

Yes I have. I was very proud of my boyfriend when I started dating him (still am), and yeah, it gave me a little self esteem boost to know that it drove my ex insanely jealous, that he was still pining for me, and that he regretted cheating on me when he saw that I had found someone else. These may not be thoughts that I am proud of, but they were natural. It is not like I got together with my current boyfriend to inspire such feelings or my ex, I am with him because I genuinely like him. Sure, these thoughts were a little immature, but I have since moved on and am still happy in my relationship with the man that my ex was so jealous of.