Me and my boyfriend have been going out since 1 year and we love each other a lot. We are both 16. But I didn’t tell my parents about my boyfriend cause I was too scared that me and my boyfriend would be separated. One day me and my boyfriend went out, like we normally do. He gave me a webcam to talk to him on messenger. I went home and mum saw the webcam in my hand. Things just got worse from that moment. My mum kept asking and asking questions yet she didn’t believe a word I said … even though she made me swear on the Bible. My mum hates me for having a boyfriend she says I am a disgrace to her. She locked me in the my bedroom, hit me, took away my phone and told my dad to make police complaint against my boyfriend. I cannot ever see my boyfriend ever again and if I do I am never aloud to live with my parents. I have been listening to my parents conversation, they are starting to like my boyfriend but I have not heard a word from my boyfriend since yesterday. Please help me.
2007-08-01 08:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by kareena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried to contact him in every possible way but my boyfriend is no where to be found. I just cannot stop crying. I am really worried what should i do?
2007-08-01 08:34:25 · update #1
Actually my boyfriend loves me alot and he done alot for me eventhough i am sick he loves me. He also told me to tell my parents and we decided that we will both go and tell them face to face after my birthday. But as you see everything just went wrong and I am scared my boyfriend left me so my parents don't do anything wrong or I.
2007-08-01 08:43:15 · update #2
I told my mum everything when she saw the webcam in my hand, that I and my boyfriend love each other.
2007-08-01 08:46:11 · update #3
My parents did talk to my boyfriend but something werid happened to his phone and I did not hear anything from him since then. Also my parents saw his picture.
2007-08-01 08:48:26 · update #4
But the problem is I really love my boyfriend and its just so hard living without him for a second and one day has just killed me inside. I just can't stop crying I am totally broken. I am still contacting him but no sign of him. AND if anyone of you think you can help me please contact me on msn.
2007-08-01 08:52:15 · update #5
My bf is the first bf I ever had and I am his 2nd gf. We shared our first kiss everything and he respects me. I don't know what happened to him, I hope he is ok :'( I miss him alot :'(
2007-08-01 09:16:22 · update #6
I understand your going through a heart wrenching experience. This advice may be difficult for you to accept, but you need to relax and go with the flow. You won't be living with your parents for a lot longer, You'll be an adult very very soon. If this boy really cares about you, he will contact you soon and try to make a positive impression with your parents. If the relationship does fail, it wasn't meant to be. You'll have something better waiting for you down the road. Be a strong person and work on yourself as an individual. Don't get too hung up on any boy right now. They really aren't worth it. When you do find the "right one", both of you will know it and it will be wonderful. It's very likely, your parents will also approve greatly as well. Take some time, calmy talk to your parents. Be receptive to what they have to say. If you listen to them, it's more likely they will also listen to you. They are only reacting so stronlgly because they love you and want to protect you. Try to keep the feelings between you and your parents positive and remember, they love you very much. You can be certain of your parents love, but the boy hasn't proven his yet. You'll have your family forever, but boys can come and go. If the boy really cares, he won't go away. Don't worry. If he does go away, then there's really no loss.
2007-08-01 08:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mark G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your mum saw the webcam she thought your boyfriend would invade your privacy. She was thinking about all those girls who lift up their shirts. It's for that reason I don't go to the type of sites that allow direct conversation or webcam feeds. I would go to the cop shop and see if the cops know what's up.
2007-08-01 15:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by thetechnitiondude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that was abuse on your parent's part. No one is allowed to hit you. Report this.
Try explaining to your parents how you feel about this situation. Then ask them to explain their side. Why is this a disgrace to ur mom? And how can ur dad file a complaint? He hasn't done anything so I can pretty much garuntee none was filed.
Why are they so judgemental? They hated him before they even knew him. How are they starting to like ur bf if you haven't seen him?
2007-08-01 15:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by 7th heaven freak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. How can they possibly like your boyfriend, they've never met him or got to spend any time with him.
2. You are very immature at 16 if you feel the need to lie to your parents for a boy.
3. Any boy that encourages you to lie to your parents is worthless.
2007-08-01 15:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's bad well i no that the only reason why yo mom did dat is cuz she loves you i mean but your 16 as well she shouldn't care but since they are starting to like him have you recaped form where yall left off and since yesterdy wen don't be sad or nothin it will all work out for you if its tru luv then yall wil keep talkin and your parents will soon notice that yall luv each other then maybe they will chill out well good luck.
2007-08-01 15:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by skittlez07 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm it sounds like your parents scared him off. Try going to his house and talking to him.
2007-08-01 15:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask a clos relative to live with themn for awhi;le and then gop to his house and explain stuff
2007-08-01 15:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him tell ur parents!!!
if thier parents where like that they would not be together
2007-08-01 15:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋