how do i tell this guy i like him and i really want to go out with him?
2007-08-01 08:27:47 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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be like man, we should hangout more you know?
like play it inoscent ..trust me he'll know that you like him by that.
2007-08-01 08:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. Us guys are pretty simple creatures. There are the normal signs (touching his collar or arm, or leaning in during conversations, being ever-so-slightly more attentive to him than to other people at parties), but the fact is, most guys can be pretty clueless, so it's best to just say, "Yo, I dig you. Want to go out some time?" Keep it casual, and don't be too desperate or clingy and allow him to take the lead from there. If he can't cowboy up, then it's best if you let it go. Trust me, you don't want a guy who can't step up. He'd just be weak in other parts of the relationship. Unless you want to be his mama. Good luck!
2007-08-01 15:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by No. 6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation and asked a similar question on here a couple days ago... But, I was told to just tell him and be completely honest with him. So that is what I did. I took him out to ice cream and talked to him about exactly how I felt. What I liked about him and why I wanted to be with him. It all worked out and we are together now. So, I recommend just being up front and honest with him.
2007-08-01 15:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by JJ J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that! I am 31 yrs old married to the guy I asked out in college. Most guys like it when your open, honest and up front!
2007-08-01 15:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Team 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and use your vocal chords to form these words: "I like you and I really want to go out with you". Let the sound reverberate into his ears and his mind comprehend them. Then wait for the response.
2007-08-01 15:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I like you and I'd like to go on a date with you."
Try it! Even if he says no you'll be proud of yourself for being so brave. The only way to get what you want in life is to go and get it. Don't let your fears hold you back!
2007-08-01 15:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Gwenilynd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look him up and down then say "hey how you doin'
followed by asking to get coffee
2007-08-01 15:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna tell him you like, don't be immature and text or email him. Do it either in person, and if you're too shy for that, call him. Just come right out and say it.
2007-08-01 15:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to do something really casual with you, like having coffee, so that its not a real date, then if he likes you he will ask to do something with you again.
2007-08-01 15:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by rockdog935 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hi, my name is XXXX, why dont you take me out some time, id really like that."
Something blunt is usually best...apparently us guys miss less obvious signs..hehe..or at least thats what im told =)
2007-08-01 15:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him and ask him if he would like to come over for dinner..he won't resist
2007-08-01 15:36:52 · answer #11 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋