I feel like I've met my soul mate when I was looking. I recently came out of a 3 year marriage. My divorce was final in October of last year. I was in deep pain and deep remorse for not making my marriage last. It was a horrible time for me. In turn, I vowed to pick up the pieces and move forward with my life. I decided to work on myself by regaining my self-esteem and confidence.
Two months ago I met somebody online. It was a "chance" encounter. I wasn't looking to meet anybody and fall in love. I simply wanted some affection.
Turns out I feel spirtually and emotionally connected to this person. We've been intimate many times now and I feel something so spectacular that it leaves me in awe each time we meet. I can feel that he feels it too.
Funny thing, I believe he is my soul mate. Perhaps we have more than one but I feel so intense about this person. When we look we end up settling but when we don't look there is no reason.
Any of you felt this way before? This is the first!!!
2007-08-01 08:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I married my sole mate. I was not looking for someone and like you I had been recently divorced but one day I met this girl and we clicked right away like magic. We met on line and a year later we were together and married a year after that. We have been married for over 9 yrs and I love her more each day then the previous day. I could not be happier. I mean everyone has their moments but life with her is like God sent her to me.
2007-08-01 08:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I truly did feel this way. It was also a time when I was not actually looking, which made me really think it was meant to be. Unfortunately, it didn't last. We got married and it only lasted 3 years. It really broke my heart.
I am not in any way saying this to discourage you. I really still believe that there are soul mates out there and that things can work out great. I hope so much that this is really the case with you as well. I wish you great happiness.
Keep in mind though, that sometimes this rapturous feeling you are having can cloud your judgement. You need to take a serious look at what you actually know about this person and also keep in mind that you are both putting your best foot forward right now. Things often change when the initial passion wears down a bit. If you do notice any red flags, don't ignore them. Hopefully there won't be any though!
Really, I am not saying this in spite or meanness, just because I truly care and hope the best for you. I know of couples who are still absolutely head over heals for each other after years and years and years of marriage, so I know it can happen.
Anyway, best of luck to you and I hope you enjoy every minute of it!
2007-08-01 08:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by animal lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
I met the person I thought was my soul mate on January 1, 2000. Our connection was so strong that I could "visit" him in his apartment... in another city! That sounds really weird, doesn't it? Of course it didn't last and the heartache was monumental. I still believe we're soul mates, but I also think soul mates aren't always meant to be together. I am convinced your soul mate pops up in your life with a job to do: to show you the way, to open doors, to help you move on and become a new and better you, to lift you up to another level... do you get what I mean? You and he were probably on a collision course, put in motion a long, long time ago, before you were born. At a particular moment, on soul level, a promise is made. It's a promise to help, I strongly believe that. When both of us most need help, we'll meet, that's the promise. Why do we meet? To remember who we truly are, so we can move on. When you met this person, the promise came true. He bears with him a lesson for you and you have a lesson for him.
2007-08-01 09:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I believe in soul mates anymore but I do believe in people who compliments our soul. I was in a very long relationship for me to be 28. I was with my first love from 14 to 26... that hurt me deeply for us to have to separate but things happen, people grow and change... I've been on my own almost three years now and been through a couple of guys who didn't compliment me, even though some have been very nice guys... then, I got frustrated and decided to stop looking and not care about finding love again and just work on myself and take care of my two toddlers... then, oneday I called my cell phone company and I got this weird, strange but good vibe from the other end of the phone line. While he helped me and everything... neither of us were flirting.... I hung up after the call, and going on with my daily, regular day... minding my business... then, two hours later I receive a text message and it was him telling me how nice it was talking to me earlier... I automatically knew it was him, although, I played it off by asking who in the H-E- double hockey sticks that was... he was like, "well how many people did you speak to this morning?" LOL... I said just my cell phone rep... He said, "there u go"... Well long story short... after a month of texting, phone conversations and emails... we met... he is in another state but not too too far. I swear I feel like I have known him from somewhere before... he really is a sweetheart and we decided to test the waters to see where this thing may lead to... Did I mention... he isn't a phone customer service rep?? It was by chance he was helping to man the rep lines that morning for some odd reason - he works in another dept that never deals with the external customers... and I didn't even want to call that moring, I was about to just go into a store but something just made me call in. Well, I'm sorry for the long message but I can relate! Good luck!
2007-08-01 08:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Buttafli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is actually this great book called "Twin Souls" that discusses the subject vividly.
But I would caution that you just left a marriage perhaps it is moving to fast? Just speaking from experience.
2007-08-01 08:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by inaru816 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soulmate is simply someone we have a strong connection to, almost immediately. Sometimes it's as if they know our thoughts and dreams w/o us verbalizing them...as if we knew each other in a previous life.
Soulmates come in all types though. They can be our age, much younger or much older...same sex, or different sex. They are often not romantic partners or lovers for us, but they can sometimes be. Some people meet none in a lifetime, others may meet many.
When you cross paths with one...you'll know it. ☺
2007-08-01 08:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married to my soul mate for almost 9 years... We've been together for 12. I hope you are right! Good luck!
2007-08-01 08:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's so great that you have found your soul mate, i do believe we all have peole out there who make us feel so incredibly special that we believe they are our soul mates. make sure this is real because you said yourself your divorce was painful for you, so take it slowly and give it time.
2007-08-01 08:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have felt like i met my soul mate but then i found out she was my cousin.
2007-08-01 08:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by No More Mr. Nice Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. And we got divorced. Let the dust settle a bit more after your divorce before diving in again.
2007-08-01 08:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋