2007-08-01 08:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by PHATTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you cant really get thru it, time will heal your pain
2007-08-01 08:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same feeling when My grandpa died 4 years ago and it was hard to get over it. It take some time before he dosent think about it much.
2007-08-01 08:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by roadhouse39175 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for his lose! I just lost two of my grandfathers (05-20/07 & 07/02/07).. it was the hardest thing i've even dealt with. all that really helped for me was just knowing i had so many friends that were there for me if i need to talk or anything. just be there or if he needs space give him that too. everyone deals with death differentley so just find out what he needs and do it.. your a great gf!! god bless
BTW, it takes time.. I cried myself to sleep last night and it's been two months since the grandpa i was closest to passed!
2007-08-01 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 08:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly just be there for him to have a shoulder to cry on and a person to talk to, try not to do much talking and let him lead the conversations. It helps when the person in pain gets to do most of the talking! this will bring you closer to him if you are there all the time!!
2007-08-01 08:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you are going to be there for him. i lost a grandmother about 2 1/2 weeks ago and my church family is helping me out because I do not have a significant other to help me with it.
2007-08-01 08:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do it be there, listen when he wants to talk and hold him when he needs to be held, things like that. You can't take away his pain.
Give him room to grieve - that is a lot to lose in a shot time.
Just don't be all gloomy and depressing. He already has that.
2007-08-01 08:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him
and try 2 get his mind of off it
but usually
he would want 2 b left alone 2think bout it
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good luck
2007-08-01 08:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by vs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i amm sorry for the bad news, try and comfort him teling him that you will be there for him when he needs you most , and you will do the most you can to help him throigh the pain.
Lucie xxx
2007-08-01 08:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lucyy-Babee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is your grandpa and your cousin and he died? I don't understand.
2007-08-01 08:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋