ok this going i like shes bi and 17 and shes at FL untill the 13th..but my cuzzin john likes her and hes 27 and he will do anything to keep me and her from hooking up. what should i do i need alot of help so bad.. how do i get her with me and not my player cuzzin that dont love her like i love her
2007-08-01 19:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by vc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
report him its illegal shes under 18
2007-08-01 19:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by razorblade romance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi v! Well, you can`t stop true love you know, so I would express my feelings to her as soon as you can, but you have to remember, there is a Chance you can get burned. However, if you love her as much as you say, go for it. I am sure you manages to fool that "cuzzin" of yours, don`t you also when you think about it? Yes I am sure you can pull it off! have a great summer, good luck, peace and love from Norway
2007-08-02 02:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While talking with her and a ways into the conversation, let something she says remind you of something embarrassing that your cousin may or may not have done. Make it outrageous, slightly disgusting, and moderately against her beliefs. Don't tell additional stories. You don't want to intrigue her with his audacity. You want to ruin his reputation by showing that he occasionally has serious lapses of judgment. Don't go into details; to do so would be immature and that would be really bad for you. After mentioning it, try to act as genuinely disappointed as you can, like you are totally blown away by how stupid and thoughtless he can be.
If she likes older guys, you have to do your best to be mature. Don't sacrifice any sense of humor you have, but keep things fairly sophisticated, other than the mention of his little oops. Bisexual women tend to like slightly feminized guys. Comb your hair perfectly, match your clothes and stuff very carefully, perhaps get a messenger bag, but don't go overboard. You want to hint that you like being one of the girls without coming across as gay. Flirt with her in a SLIGHTLY girly way. Girls are very perceptive, so just the occasional sidelong glance may be all it takes. Be a little forward, show your intelligence and maybe hint, again ever so slightly, that you have a mischievous side and you should be fine. Happy hunting.
2007-08-02 02:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Answers For Everything 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cousin needs to date in his own age bracket. When you turn 18, you need to date and hang out with people who are 18 and UP! The cousin can be jailed for messing with underage girls. Fink the creep out if you have to!
You have to develop a relationship with a girl. Get to know her, develop a history with her, hang out with her, be nice to her... be her friend FIRST, and everything else will fall into line. Love isn't about the hook-up, it is about mutual respect. She probably already tired of having guys trying to hump her leg as is. You have to stand out from the crowd by showing some class.
2007-08-02 02:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your cousin is 10 years older than she is and she is still a minor. In most states that will get you 20 years and a lifetime of having to register as a sexual offender. Perhaps you should make your cousin aware of this and he'll do the noble thing and date girls his own age or at least above the age of consent.
2007-08-02 02:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by motherofthree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With him being 27, he can still get in trouble if he is with an 18 year old being that his age is that far apart. Tell him he better stick to girls that are at least 19 or he will suffer penalties under the law, even if she did consent to the relationship.
2007-08-02 02:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by rle102669 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dear one.
Don't worry sooo much.
Find out whether she likes you.
She's just 17 and is not in a position to make a strong decision.
So don't force her to love u.
Love just Happens. it can't be enforced.
Please be friends with her.
You will realise dat dis Friendship will b worth it.
You have a long way to go to realise ur dreams & ambitions.
wishin u d very best in Life
Aryan
2007-08-02 02:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Aryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl you love her. And tell your cousin you love her. He can't keep you two apart if you're meant to be, that's just impossible. He's probably just jealous, but once another girl comes along, he'll be after her, anyway.
2007-08-02 02:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by stormy.! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her how u feel now before he can! that and meet her at the airport with flowers or something like that and if u really want to prove to her u love her and not him fly to florida if u can
2007-08-02 02:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just have to let her know how you feel. If she really likes you too then she wont worry about your cousin but if she likes your cousin then theres nothing that you can do about it.
2007-08-02 02:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by imsmartkid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel straight up and then just make sure she knows how your cousin is... hes a little old for her anyway
2007-08-02 02:22:06 · answer #11 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋