Sometimes in a life we tend to be people that we are not,,,,meaning,,,sometimes we try to put on this air that we are the good little homemaker,,,and make everyone around us think that we have the picture perfect marriage when in fact we are screaming,,,,UGH!!! These things that you seen your wife doing are not just spontaneous,,,or he made her,,they are the inner desires of her heart,,to be wild and free things that she for some reason held in with you ,,,and that comes from not being honest with herself and you,,,they are things that she has thought of doing,,being naughty and dirty,,being a bad girl,,sometimes we need to step out of ourselves and be someone else,,and she needs to do that with you,,not with others,,,if she is doing this now she will do it later also,,and continue to do this to others,,until she is honest with her self and admits who she really is,,it is ok to be naughty and dirty sometimes,,and have the occasional Fu***ing session,,that is where the passion and heat of love come in,,,and it needs to be done with you and not someone she has no connection with ya know,,,now what you need to do is ask yourself ,,,if this is the person that you married is the one for you,,,is she honest and is she going to be able to open up to you like she did him,,,no is the answer,,,or she would have already done it,,,and not with someone else,,,your marriage is based on alot of dis-trust and lies,,,and deception,,,she did not trust that you would accept her for her,,and did not believe in your faith in her to just be her self,,,which is a disaster waiting to happen,,,that is why the divorce rate is so high,,,people are not honest and we all have a false perception of what people think we should be instead of being who we are,,,and that is what she has done,,,you need to let it go and move on,,find someone that is honest and trust you and trusts enough in themselves to know that you will accept them for who they are,,and accpets themselves for the lover they are,,,,until she does this it will be nothing but heartache for her and you,,and whoever else is involved,,,and that is not a happy marriage or future,,,but that is a decision only you can make it is what you can stand to take and deal with as the years follow,,,and ya know sometimes it takes a complete stranger to see something in front of you that you fail to see,,,,,,,,,,
I wish you luck and hope you find what you are looking for,,and maybe she will too,,,when you love someone you do not hurt them and betray them like she has,,so when she says I'm sorry I love you and i just don't know what I was doing,,,don't fall for it just because of your heart,,listen to your head and think,,,she did know what she was diong,,,it takes two people,,and if she looked like she was enjoying it,,,it is because she WAS!!!!
2007-08-02 05:58:46
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answer #7
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answered by Daphne F 2
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