hi...i'm a 24 yr old woman. we are three sisters and we grew up in a colorful neighborhood. we had this guy....a yr older to me...he was our childhood friend and went on to become my best friend. 4 yrs ago he confessed that he loved me. i refused because i had never thought of him as a suitor. he did try his best but then i held on to my guns. he's really handsome and rich and a really nice guy but somehow i wasn't ready for it. then he went away to study in another state and i too went away to another state to study. we guys did keep in touch and i tried hard not to change anything in our relationship. yesterday he and my youngest sister (she's 21) announced that they are engaged. i should be happy about it, i know...but i'm shocked....it hit me...i don't know why. i don't love him...i'm sure about it....then why am i not anywhere near elated? i love my sis and always want the best for her....but i feel so queer right now about the whole thing....why??
2007-08-01 21:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably feel lose out or shock by the news that he's with yr little sister!!! How can that be? Why don't i know about them?
2007-08-01 22:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is quite a natural feelings. He loved you once, you refused and sister getting engaged to the same guy. Your subconscious mind says that once you rejected that is the end of his story and no more involvement in your family. Since he is involved with your sibling, your mind refuse to accept the fact. That is why you are not happy with it.
2007-08-02 05:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by slmac11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. You'll get over it. Just be happy for the both of them. The greatest thing in life is accepting the reality.
2007-08-02 04:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by chester david 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were going with him and now he is marrieing your sister you still fell it should of been you
you wish her the best out of love
but wish them the best
i fell for ya
thats a tuff one
2007-08-02 04:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blind sided
2007-08-05 18:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋