they also stay at home with their girlfriends aged 17and18. My mom just accepts this and let them have the run of the house ,none of them are working so my mom buys both babys whotever they need .I am the eldest and help around the house ,but as soon as i say anything with regards to the way we live my mom refuses to speek 2 me, really cant take it anymore ,what can i do?
2007-08-01 22:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by caylum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your 27 years old! You can move out and make a life for yourself! Otherwise you are no better off than your brothers. Sounds like all of you need to grow up and give mum some space!
2007-08-01 22:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know life is hard and that it is difficult to be a single mom but you really should listen to everyone and think about getting your own place. If money is the issue, there are so many social programs that will help you and your son with food, place to stay etc. You need your space, and what about your son? I bet he'd love to be with you and have his own room with his mom. Sounds like your mom is too nice
After you move out, you will be able to say something to your brothers without sounding like a hypocrite. Meaning, if you tell them they need to move out and get jobs, they can't come back with "Well you live at home too". Tell them if they are old enough to be parents, they are old enough to pay bills and do household duties.
2007-08-01 22:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by yomama23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you able to locate the money for this baby? Do you have help from yet another person? are you able to supply the existence you prefer to supply your infants? connect parenting communities and spot in case you are able to fulfill different mothers and set up playdates. The sibling is truthfully no longer the right age to play suitable away besides by using fact you will desire to get pregnant first. parent 2 or 3 months on that juncture then upload 9 months. Then the youngster has to get to a level the place that's secure for the sibling to play with it. by ability of that factor, the youngster would be in kindergarten.
2016-10-01 06:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by bedlion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here where i live we have subsidized housing for people like you. If you are getting child support or some sort of income they will base your rent on that and put a roof over your head, you may want to look into it, to seperate yourself from the current situation I think it would be best because it sounds pretty crowded otherwise.
2007-08-02 05:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by bigtrucks4x4s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so concerned with your brothers? Because you do chores around the house you feel like they should at least get their girls to do something right? Well if your mom doesn't even trip on them why do you. Its your moms house be glad that she hasn't kicked you out or asked you for rent money if she's the only one supporting all of you. Its great to have Mommy take care of you but don't take advantage of her.
2007-08-01 22:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by yamila t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it maybe hard now but just start looking for a place that maybe you can afford and while you are staying home save some money to move. And just pray for things to get better for you and they will. Just be encouraged honey it will all work out.
2007-08-01 22:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get a job and move!! You should not be living with your mom at 27 years old anyway!!!
2007-08-01 22:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe I would find a job and join forces with a close friend and get your own place. Your poor mother needs her space.
2007-08-01 22:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Preferably get a husband and make your own life.
2007-08-01 22:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank for the 2 points
2007-08-01 22:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋