Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

i just want to take a poll about the food we are thinking of having on our big day.

i just want to see if its liked all around by all types of people... or if we should choose a different menu... The buffet comes wth 2 different dinners

1) Salad, Lasagna, Bread and butter

2) Lemon Pepper Chicken with steamed veggies and red potatos

if you would enjoy this say Aye... if not Nay... you know how this goes :-p

2007-08-01 14:45:46 · 27 answers · asked by Penelope 3 in Weddings

Married 16 years and sex has always been a challenge. She has never initiated sex, best I can tell foreplay is a bore and sex lasts about as long as I do which having sex once a month you can imagine it is very brief. She stays home, always had. I make a great living and she has a maid to help out with the housework. She is always tired and even when we "plan" on sex she is usually asleep by the time the kids go to bed (around 10). I am high energy so I do as much as I can around the house so she doesn't have to. Laundry, dishes, picking up after the kids hoping that she'll have enough energy. I kiss her good bye and tell her I love her (she is asleep) every morning and call home at 10 am every workday so as not to wake her up. I am at wits end, no sex, no romance and she is not affectionate when I ask for a massage you would think I asked for the world. I ask her what can we do, she says nothing, counseling? no. She having an affair? says no, been this way since I known her.

2007-08-01 14:45:31 · 20 answers · asked by Machine_Wind 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 15 and just got my first job and everyone that works with me are all older than me. Each day b4 we start we go in this room to discuss everything and everyone has their own group of friends. I have no one to talk to and i end up standing there looking stupid. Everyone that I work with are all like seniors in high school. When I get to know someone well im not shy at all but when i dont know some1 i am. What should i do because i want to make friends there and feel more comfortable. Help!?

2007-08-01 14:43:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 20. The boyfriend is 21. We've been dating for 7 mos. We dated in the past for 2 yrs. He becomes infatuated with his friends every summer because they're home from college! This started in the beginning of the summer. He wanted more friend time; I respected that completely. We had been hanging out on Friday and Saturday only. Recently, he "put his foot down" and said he wanted either Friday or Saturday to hangout with friends. I said fine. He said he feared telling me this because he thought he would hurt my feelings.

He had gone on a trip to Cancun for a week with his 2 friends. He comes back. The following weekend he wants to go to his friend's party. I felt awful that day because I was in the hospital all day with my very ill grandma. I called him to see if he would come over to comfort me. He was angry! He came over and started crying that he had missed out on this party. He said he just doesn't care that I feel sad about my grandma. He "tries, but just can't care."

2007-08-01 14:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by SuperFox 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you girls care about the size of the penis because i have rather small penis and i get kind of nervous aout it and what girls will say when they see it.

2007-08-01 14:40:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do girls like to talk about?

2007-08-01 14:40:26 · 31 answers · asked by confuzzed 1 in Friends

2007-08-01 14:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What's the longest you have gone without sex (including fooling around) with your live in girlfriend/boyfriend was removed from my questions and I have say WAY more personal stuff on here like periods and birth control and how much your grandmother weighed at a certain age! lol is it really that bad, i mean its not like you look bad or anything

2007-08-01 14:39:32 · 3 answers · asked by sassylassy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 14:38:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me. A lot of people say he doesn't. What do I do?

2007-08-01 14:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 14:37:39 · 13 answers · asked by tookoolfool 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We are supposed to forgive and forget when a guy messes around on us. But, let some guy find out his girl cheated on him and he's destroyed. What gives?

2007-08-01 14:36:05 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who , about every other week is dealing with some sort of money-related problem she is having. She usually calls me to vent her frustrations and goes into a long drawn out story abou how this and that happened, or she paid Company X and they said that they didn't get her check, and now she has come up with X amount of dollars by the next day. This is every other week it is always something. When she calls me, she usually pause and it will be silent a bit, as if she is waiting for me to respond ( perhaps with money), I dont always know what to say to her. After the long pause, she gets of the phone in a hurry, but have a disgusted tone in her voice. I have helped her out few times in the past, but I refuse to make this a habit. I suggested her going to get a small loan, since she works at the bank, but she says she can't. What are some ways I can respond? I don't feel comfortable with loaning money to friends, nor do I want to keep bailing her out each time.

2007-08-01 14:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Alana 2 in Friends

Here's the story,She is or was areally close relative to me;we were together since we were born;raised up;played;ate;slept shared every thing together&that was in the 3 vacation months;but u know what? she never loved me or at least not as mush as I loved&sacrificed for her;She was always selfesh & very very jealous of me; As I'm lovely with long black silky hair stylish kid till now&She is just the contrary;dont think that iam saying this cuz I feel highly of my self PLZ,what am saying is the truth I swear,I've never done anything bad to her;no;I was so kind with her meanwhile she was evil with me,U just cannt imagine how much she hurt me,the most painfull part here is that I really loved her as a sister or maybe more&all what I get from her is pain;neglection&she never cared about my feelings,I rememmber I spent more than 3 months to write aletter for her that she didnt bother herself to just read,I 've forgotten her totally for a year till now&I'm happy without her I dont want her

2007-08-01 14:34:59 · 4 answers · asked by Pharmacist 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 14:34:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if so i'd love to chat with you.

2007-08-01 14:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Vickie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i liked this boy and then about a 2 weeks later we didnt like eachother anymore (we didnt go out) and then he asked me to give him head, IM 13! i said no and then hes like please and im like maybe if i got to know you alot better! and then he was like okkk well lets get to know eachother better and i said but i dont know if im gonna want to give you head anyway even if i do know you well cause i dont want people to think bad of me and hes like ok i wont tell i promise and i didnt do ANYTHING with him and he told people i gave him head! im really upset because im not like that!! i dont know what to do im really hurtttt that he would do that to me after he told me he loved me =[

2007-08-01 14:33:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend who is friends with my current boyfriend, told a friend of mine that he still has feelings for me. i broke up with him a year ago because he cheated on me, and his friend [my boyfriend] was there for me during those tough times. i got with my boyfriend and my ex got with the girl that he cheated on me with. my ex knows that im happy right now and i only consider him as a friend. i dont want to tell my boyfriend that his friend, my ex, flirts with me everytime he gets a chance to. this guy comes and visits me @ work and stays flirting with me, calling me, and every chance he gets he tries to ask me to go and hang out with him!!! what should i do!!!!??? he's stressing me out, and i dont want any problems with him and my boyfriend!!!

2007-08-01 14:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my husband and I recently had a baby, she is now 2weeks. This is our fourth child. None of our families came to visit us in the hospital during the four day stay, except for my husband's sister. My parents are passed, but his are not. His parents came the night I had the baby but they only saw her through the window, never touching her or holding her, they did not return for the 4 day stay. I have sisters though, the one closest to me did not even call me, until a week later, I did not answer the phone. We are not bad people. My husband and I have degrees. I stay at home and take care of the children. We are clean. We have an ideal home. The people I attend church with came and saw us. They even brought us food when we returned home, not once but for five days. To top it off last Sunday his parents were coming to see us (remember they haven't really met the baby) they decided to hang out at the mall until 5:30 then came over for 45min. I can't get over this. What should we do?

2007-08-01 14:31:53 · 9 answers · asked by TT 2 in Family

i have a friend who fell in love with a teacher. first i thought it is my friend attracted to the teacher. Then my friend dreams of the teacher for 6 years now but she coulden't say it to the teacher yet. The teacher is not married.

Could it be a real love? what do u think? is it good or bad?

2007-08-01 14:30:39 · 51 answers · asked by LuLu 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past 5 months ever since my uncle and his family came from China, my mom has changed. There's never one good day or week we haven't fought are argued and I;m getting so sick of it. She beats me and screams at me because she's like giving away everything to them and I really missed those things. She's gotten psycho and she beat me with a stick and now my leg is all bruised up. I really can't take it anymore. She said that I've changed but the real deal is she's the whole who's changed into a psycho b****. There's not one week that I haven't cried at all. She wasn't like this before I'm so sick of fighting with her and all the things that made me really depressed, I just wanna move in with my aunts. What should I do? Please help

2007-08-01 14:29:42 · 13 answers · asked by sharaont 6 in Family

2007-08-01 14:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by anglecakesalfred 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im married for 3 years now and feels like my husband never treated me as a wife.He never take me somewhere.he never do anything to please me.Instead , he bought some things for somebody and he never bought me anything.And he tried to tell me it was for me .Its not even my size.Our relationship now is in jeopardy since i told his mom he was trying to grow marijuana inside the house .He said it was over since then.I work i do all the things in the house and all he have to do is set down infront of the computer watching those naked womens.He said he dont care what i think thats why he's doing those stuff instead of taking care of the family. I told him many times i wanna a divorce but i always give him a chance.We have 2 kids together.All he cares are the kids now.Im out of the picture but still im the one paying the bills , do the things in the house.He said he dont love me anymore.He said we have to stay together for the kids even if we dont love each other. What should i do?Pls help

2007-08-01 14:28:01 · 23 answers · asked by Jade_2317 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was drunk and there making me to take a shot of vodca and i turn around hes the first i seen and i gave it to him and he took the shot for me keep in mind i only meet him that night do u think he seems that type if he did that my cousins thought it was sweet what do u think

2007-08-01 14:26:24 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright my best friend lets call her Sue has been talking with this guy friend of hers we will name Joe. Joe has told Sue soo many times that he likes me, feels a connection, thinks im beautiful and fine looking. Recently me and Joe been sorta hanging out during summer school, and recently he asked for my number and I gave it to him. Joe seems to be a nice guy but he is a sophmore im a senior, he isnt attractive, he is a bit overweight. I guess i can get over that lol. I havent had a bf in about 5 months and i want some affection. So if Joe asks me out when he calls me, do i say yes or no? Would it be wrong to say yes go on a date get the affection i want/need then reject him? any other way to let him down easy? IDK what to do about this!! Help me out!! please!!

2007-08-01 14:25:48 · 17 answers · asked by Siroonig 5 in Singles & Dating

I dont really have the looks to attract girls. I'm not sure if I have the personality. Can I get it if I dont have it?

Can I change myself into what girls want so that they will like me? How?

2007-08-01 14:24:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty laid back and don't care about much. It hasn't bothered me until I realized he knew all the porn stars names and he looks at it all the time. I'm not bad looking at all! So I was just wondering if it did bother anyone or how you feel about it?

2007-08-01 14:23:49 · 37 answers · asked by thejeweler 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl and idk if shes my friend she trys to set ppl up all the time wat should i do

2007-08-01 14:22:37 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Friends

2007-08-01 14:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by kenny g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you're married to an alcoholic, should you just leave them or try to work it out? What are the chances of things actually changing? I am married to one, and I love him very much, but I don't want to spend the the next 20 years of my life fighting about his addiction? Is there a chance he will change if I force him to make the decision to quit? A.A. or leave? What do you think?

2007-08-01 14:22:15 · 23 answers · asked by portiaraylee 2 in Marriage & Divorce