PLEASE i really need help and i dont know what to do!?

Question

okay i liked this boy and then about a 2 weeks later we didnt like eachother anymore (we didnt go out) and then he asked me to give him head, IM 13! i said no and then hes like please and im like maybe if i got to know you alot better! and then he was like okkk well lets get to know eachother better and i said but i dont know if im gonna want to give you head anyway even if i do know you well cause i dont want people to think bad of me and hes like ok i wont tell i promise and i didnt do ANYTHING with him and he told people i gave him head! im really upset because im not like that!! i dont know what to do im really hurtttt that he would do that to me after he told me he loved me =[

Answer 1

he's just a sad self conscience individual looking to others to validate himself. He has to lie about that to make himself feel like he's a better person. Unfortunately at that period in life as far as he is concerned that makes him a step up, thankfully you know that he actually is just like any other hormone infested male individual for his age. I would call him out on it in public, and damage his reputation for ages ;)

But I don't know the details of your social situation.

Answer 2

You will find that there are some boys who feel the need to brag about conquests real or untrue, to their friends. First thing to do is do not give him the time of day, forget he even exists. He is not worthy of your time or thoughts. There is not a whole lot that you can do about the things he has said. What you can do is learn from this and the next time anyone, male or female, wants you to do something that you are not comfortable with let them know that right from the beginning. If they ask a second time, write them off, a real friend, perspective boyfriend, "decent person" will respect you and your wishes. You do not have to do anything but be yourself and follow your own ideas of what is right or wrong for you! You will also find that some boys will tell you they love you just to get what ever they want from you, and usually what they want is sexually oriented.

Answer 3

i'm sorry about all of that. He is just another playa playa who thinks that if they get a rep that girls have done stuff to him then he will be top dog. HA wrong maybe with the guys but girls from the school wont want to date him.

Something like this happened to me once. This kid wanted me to flash him on web cam but it wasn't be just a pull up your shirt 5 second thing more as in sitt there and let him stair. Well i didn't want to and never did but he ended up telling his friends that i did flash him. Anytime someone asks me about it i tell them that it didn't happen which is true.

Okay see if you dont have a rep for doing stuff like that with guys then you will/ should be safe from the making fun of from other people. And for the him telling you that he loves you, he was just saying that soo that you would feel more comfortable about giving him head. Trust me he is a loser and i would forget about him.

Answer 4

What a loser! He's too stupid to know what love really is in the first place, and even more of an a** to use those lines to try and get your innocence... stick up for yourself, girl. Don't get down by what he's telling people. Accept that he is a jerk, and not worth your time. If people see that you're hurt, they'll think it's because "he told on you," not "he lied to you" -- so preserving yourself in the eyes of your pupils may in fact be laughing it off. Rolling your eyes. Telling people "he wishes!!" Whatever you do, don't show him that he succeeded in hurting you. He's trying to punish you for saying no to him, so show that brat that you're better than him, and just remember that your friends know you all too well to believe his lies... Good luck!!

Answer 5

well it was a bad idea to tell him "maybe i will give you head if i get to know you" that opened up the gate for bad things. If you are really a decent girl no one will believe him so it will all boil over. And trust me don't believe anyone that says the love you after only knowing you a few weeks thats bull. If things get out of control you need to tell a counselor.

Answer 6

first off, don't let yourself get sucked into that whole "i love you" thing. know that sometimes people would only say that to get what they want. learn not to believe things too quickly. if he asks you to give him head & then tells you he loves you or the other way around, think about it first. could he only be saying he loves you so that you'd give him head? & just ignore what he tells other people. in your mind, just laugh at him. after all he's bragging about something you know not to be true. ignore it. don't let yourself get hurt because of it. what people think of you doesn't matter, what matters is the truth that you know yourself.

Answer 7

You're 13 which is too young to be doing that anyway. He's an azz and you could do a lot better. Your true friends will know you didn't do it and that's all that matters. Don't ever compromise your values for ANYONE.

Answer 8

Ok so he doesnt love you, hes a fag, you shouldnt care what anyone thinks except for yourself, you deserve better, and who the heck would ever want to put their mouth near somthing so gross! i bet this boy is ugly and he wants to show off to all the other guys by making them think he got with the pretty girl. itll pass in the meantime enjoy the attetion! lol!

Answer 9

Its not worth your time to even talk to him again because if you do he going to let everybody in your school know stay cool now and you will laugh at him later. dis him hard by saying have a nice day.

Answer 10

Well see sweetie, this is why you need to have the sex talk with your mommy. See boys lie to get what they want from you. Talk to your mommy so she can tell you ways to not put yourself into bad situations such as this.