Girls... do you get offended when your guy looks at porn...?

Question

I'm pretty laid back and don't care about much. It hasn't bothered me until I realized he knew all the porn stars names and he looks at it all the time. I'm not bad looking at all! So I was just wondering if it did bother anyone or how you feel about it?

Answer 1

People are going to yell at you, call you jealous, and tell you to stop being insecure.

Well, I understand what you're saying. Yeah, when I think about it, it does bother me that he's being turned on by a woman 20 times sexier than me. But, at the same time, I know that it's human nature, and that I look at other guys, as well.

If he was a porn addict, then that would be another story.

Answer 2

here is a few things about men that you need to realize. First, WE NEVER STOP MASTURBATING! No matter how golden your vagina is, we still like to rough up the suspect, choke the chicken, smack the one eyed freak, etc. Second thing is that no matter what you do a man will ALWAYS look at other women. You can get your hair done, get your nail done, be a freak in bed and fulfill every single one of his fantasies and he will still look at other women. Why? Because there are 2 things a man think of: OLD and NEW. That is it. The good thing women have on their side, is that if they are with a worthy guy he'll look at the whole package before making a decision. So be the whole package! Don't do it for him either, do it for yourself...we'll get into that in just a second too (Yeah, there is some of that coming your way as well). Third, thing is that men rarely masturbate to the woman they are with. Why? Because masturbation i a fantasy...you are not a fantasy. You are a reality. So while he's watching porn he is fantasizing. If you keep giving him a hard time then he will make another woman a reality. Ok, now we need to go into the YOU part. You seem very insecure. You seem so insecure that you are threatened by a website or dvd. Think about that. You can say that it is the act of watching that offends...when it comes down to it you are threatened by someone he will never meet. What does that say about you? If you are doing all that you can to get the most of your existence, then you should not be feeling needy. If you are not doing it, I suggest you start so that you don't ask questions like this anymore. I'm assuming that you are an adult since you put this in marriage & divorce instead of some kid taht has no idea about sexuality.

Answer 3

Well for me that would bother me if i found out that he knew all the porn stars name because that means he is watching/ looking at porn a lot on his free time. So yes that would bother me a lot even if i was good looking. I personally dont see a reason for a guy to watch porn if he is in a relationship because that is very insulting to who he is dating unless they have talked about the subject and have came to an agreement about it.

Answer 4

I'm not a girl, but there's plenty of reason to be upset. I won't say offended, because I believe you're not offended until you're willing to do violence and this doesn't go so far.

If you're not enough for him then that means porn is far more important that it should be. Porn addiction has all kinds of weird side effects, one of which is impotence. If he's looking at porn this often, you might want to find out how often he's doing it...um...one handed. Is this really what you're looking for in a 'man?'

Answer 5

Women in porn are paid large sums of money to act like sex is the only thing in their life. They have to have it now, with anyone, in any way. They get their pleasure from showing a guy a good time. That's the fantasy that's being protrayed.

The problem occurs when a man expects his wife or girlfriend to behave like this. He believes the fantasy and is disappointed to learn that his wife or girlfriend wouldn't do anything with anyone even for large sums of money. This is why most women are offended by a guy indulging in porn.

Answer 6

I don't mind it at all. Sometimes I take a few peeks here and there at it. I mainly find it over rated and a bit nasty at times. But I wouldn't consider it cheating or anything really bad. Now mind you if he is into it enough to know every porn chick's name then I think its time for him to come back to reality and get to know you just as well.

Answer 7

Porn does nothing for me......OK well not a lot I would rather have my woman right in front of me! If you not bad looking then tell him to stop watching porn and you'll do some freaky stuff for him!! It work for me....that is if I can convince her to do it!!LOL

Answer 8

wow knows their names? Haha. Thats intense. to be honest i could care less, its not like hes going to leave me for one of them and if he does screw him he can have his nasty diseased porn star. i think when it becomes an obsession and starts taking over his life like ((sex addict)) is when you know its time to get him help. Or if he start looking at under age porn, thats where its me or the porn. haha goOd luck

Answer 9

It's fine, I actually usually join my bf when he does it. It's a way of getting rid of sexual tension.. He is still with you, right? That means he loves you for who you are, not just for your body. Oh, and women do tend to fall in love with movie stars or etc...it's just fantasy, nothing will come of it.

Answer 10

usually yes it bothers girls. but if u dont have a girlfriend than u can look but dont talk about with ur buddies around girls. or dont talk about it with girls. if u do have a girlfriend, only have a sneak peek once in a while.