Alright my best friend lets call her Sue has been talking with this guy friend of hers we will name Joe. Joe has told Sue soo many times that he likes me, feels a connection, thinks im beautiful and fine looking. Recently me and Joe been sorta hanging out during summer school, and recently he asked for my number and I gave it to him. Joe seems to be a nice guy but he is a sophmore im a senior, he isnt attractive, he is a bit overweight. I guess i can get over that lol. I havent had a bf in about 5 months and i want some affection. So if Joe asks me out when he calls me, do i say yes or no? Would it be wrong to say yes go on a date get the affection i want/need then reject him? any other way to let him down easy? IDK what to do about this!! Help me out!! please!!
2007-08-01 14:25:48 · 17 answers · asked by Siroonig 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's all your choice but here's some advice i think you should go out with him and see what he's like on a date and i you don;t like him just turn him down nicely but if you want to say no just say your really nice and all but i don't feel that you're the right person right now or something like that.
2007-08-01 14:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will agree with me when I say this... but if you give him some action (s_x) or a lil (_ead) while you're "seeing" him then you can pretty much use him for any chick reasons you have.... he'll be a good sport about it if you do. However if you just play him like some fat retard... and he's not getting some on the side... we'll then that's just wrong...
Infact if a guy doesn't know he's being used, he should deserve to get used....
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2007-08-01 21:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by MRKnowitall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take this from someone who knows. If ur not feeling him from the beginning it's just not going to work out ever. don't ever say well maybe i can get over this. WRONG u never will it will bug u and the relationship would have ended way before it began.
just chill with him and keep it friends u can still get affection and closeness from a close friend.
2007-08-01 21:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by cheerbear2500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt if he finds out you using him because you havent had a boyfriend in 5 months. If people see you together as you if ya together and you like him, you going to end confessing to those people and along the way the guy will find out. Just tell him no and just be nice. Its better for him to feel rejected than to find out he was being used and you didnt like at all
2007-08-01 21:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely awful to toy with someone like that. Shame on you. Do it and the next time you really like someone and they ask you out,and you think its all great, he will turn to you and say I just needed some attention and got it but I dont like you, bye. I just used you, then how would YOU feel? It will happen too. MEANIE
2007-08-01 21:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to u if u want to go on the date or not.u shouldn't just use the guy to get affection (even though u need it) then just crush his feelings.yes u should let him down easy if u want to don't want 2 go.hope this helps=)!
2007-08-01 21:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I havent had a bf in about 5 months and i want some affection"
go for it!
2007-08-01 21:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you, i mean sue, sounds like a real genuine person
and doesn't want to hurt the guy friend.
My advice go out have fun, see how it turns out, he might impress you.
2007-08-01 21:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be honest with him, let him know that you're not looking for anything serious but would love to casually date him. that way you get the attention you want and you're being honest with him.
if you don't want to be honest, then do whatever you want and then reject him. you're hurting him with the dishonesty AND rejection.
2007-08-01 21:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Noga K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't interested in him romantically, then it's wrong to date him and pretend that you are.
2007-08-01 21:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋