I'm 13 and me and my girlfriend(13 also) are in love, I know most adults would say I'm a kid and I don't know what love is. Thats bull. I know exactly what love is. Anyway, we both want to and we agreed that we're both ready.
I just want opinions, I'm not actually going to listen I just want to know what you guys think.
2007-08-01 12:29:43 · 23 answers · asked by ewwkyso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it bruh bruh dats wat i did
2007-08-01 12:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by PLYMOUTH DUSTYA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your going to experiment with your girlfriend regardless of what all these total strangers have to say to you. But if you do become sexually active make sure that you use condemns and practice safe sex. I remember being your age once upon a time and like yourself thought that I knew what love was. It's a fun time in one's life and a learning time also. Fact of live is that you are going to probably fall in love many times in your life before you meet the girl with whom you will marry and spend the rest of your days with. Your heart will probably be broken many times and just as many times you are going to be responsible for breaking girls hearts. But we as humans have a strong heart and although when it is iniatally broke it may seem that it will never heal, it always does and someone comes along to fill that void. So all I can say is if you and your girl do want to engage in sex please be careful and think of the consequences also.
2007-08-01 12:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no be patient. I know it seems hard rite now just not yet cuz there are so many risks at the moment wait till ur older and have more responsibility and understanding( in other words 16) in nots the fact ur a kid but ur age is concerning and worrying for anyone concerned becuz for one things its illegal and another its a huge responsibility for any1 to step up to mentally, there is no rush, if u love her u'll still be able to enjoy her company without sex and there other things u 2 can do that does'nt involve intercourse.
2007-08-01 12:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, im 16, and am still holding on my virginity
just lsiten tho.
first she should be on birth control when you have sex
birth control + condom = saftey to the max
make sure you knwo to deal, just in case the condom breaks or something
remember thats shes only 13 so it may hurt her a great deal more, and she may bleed.
and also first times are always awkward, especially if your just 13. if your so in love, you can wait.
sex is not only a big step physically, but emotionally
remember that
2007-08-01 12:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Maybe I'm just speaking from the fact that I was unbelievably ugly at 13 and couldn't get any if i tried... but I'd say that's too young. Sex is a big responsibility ( i know you don't need to hear this again) but it is.
I dunno, when I was 13 I was in middle school... I still had no boobs... I was a stick. I wasn't a woman yet... just seems too young. No need to rush huh?
2007-08-01 12:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way buddy.
i know how you feel.
i mean.. im not 13 now but i was once.
if you really love her.. and she really loves you. then take a giant jump and prove it to her.
no im not talking about jumping in the sack. im talking about something else.
there is a way for you to prove to her that she is the most important thing to you.. and for her to show you are the most important thing in her life. and yes it has to do with sex but not what your thinking.
wait... wait until you guys are mature. the most important thing you can give someone is time. and if you truely love her like you say you do give her that.
and if you really care about her.. dont let her make that decision yet. i know it will have bad effects down the line for her.
so wait for her... time is money, time is everything... and if she is truely your everything.. then give her that.
everything worth having is worth waiting for.
i hope you at least think about this... if you have any questions.. email me or something.
stay strong buddy.
2007-08-01 12:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by poets_loss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think that 13 is sooo young. Maybe not for you because you are guy but i would worry that your girl friend might end up regretting having sex so young in the future. Just make sure that there is no pressure.
2007-08-01 12:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little man, you are way too young for this. Think about it this way: You probably have relatives or friends who are several years younger than you are, right? Say 9 or 10, and you are 13, right? Don't you think you know more than they do, because you've been alive longer and have had more experiences? The same goes for you, my friend-those older than you with more life experience can see that you are too young. When you are older, you will see it, too. Please wait.
2007-08-01 12:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by greatlakesdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I had the option to have sex at 13 but I didn't.
I was scared.
But now I am 17 and I seriously look back and I am sooo happy I didn't have sex.
It changes everything and you should wait until you get older.
And she will apreciate it later in her life too.
don't grow up too fast.
2007-08-01 12:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you. No one can give you opinions really....
i wanted untill i was days short of turning 24 and I wouldn't do it differently. I love the guy very much and I will be with him for life (at least thats the plan!)
2007-08-01 12:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mom to one cute boy! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your both committed and in love i guess that thats good enough reason for anyone no matter what your age is..but seriously...you are 13 years old...how long have you known this girl...do you really think you are IN LOVE? i think if you are positive that you are in love and want to make that sort of a commitment to that girl then go for it...but just think about what your doing and what it really means to you...
2007-08-01 12:36:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋