So I just recently started working @ a supermarket and I was just hanging out with one of the guys tht I was working with. Well anyways we were hanging out for a while and talking, whn he decided to ask me very personal questoins( I mean real personal ones). and I left and he asked for a hug. The next morning he decides hes going to just not talk to me, and if I did ask " is ther something wrong"? He would reply "No" and He would just tell me he's tired. ( he was talking to the othr nw worker. Now he wont even talk to me. He ignores me and I cant seem to talk to him if he/s pissed off @ me. Whats the Case?
2007-08-01 13:06:52 · 15 answers · asked by Robyn McKenzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He was attracted to you at first but now he found someone else. Let it go.
2007-08-01 13:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you feel uncomfortable with the questions he asked? Did you hug him when he asked for a hug?
If you felt uncomfortable around him, he might've realized that he did something "wrong" and he feels rejected or embarrassed. If he doesn't want to talk to you, he might genuinely just want some time apart from you to recover from his shame.
If you want to talk to him, let him know that. Say, "I want to talk to you." You can also buy him a cup of hot chocolate or something and say, "It looked like you needed some cheering up." These kind gestures will make him open up to you, and he will realize that you don't hate his guts or anything. And anyway, anyone would appreciate a nice gesture from someone.
If you're okay with him, you have to show him that you're okay with him, not just walk away. If you're not okay with him, then walk away and don't worry about how he's doing!
2007-08-01 13:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by travwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem here. If you didn't like the guy asking you personal questions and you left.....you made your wishes known...too bad he took it the wrong way. Besides, unless you like this guy or are really, really, really obligated to him that you have to answer questions, you're entitled to your privacy. Don't worry....if he's ignoring you, he clearly doesn't understand you and doesn't deserve to even be having a conversation with you.
2007-08-01 13:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the info you shared made him uncomfortable. I would learn my lesson and not share personal info unless I know someone really really well. Back off. He is not interested in being a bf or a friend. Usually if you chase, they will run. STOP
2007-08-01 13:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by funngirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb him. He does not have a good personality and character. He does not care your feelings or what other people's thoughts. He is selfish and snobbish because he cares more of himself only. Don't fall to his action. He is just playing with you and tried to get your attention. Once he gets what he wants, he would just do what he is doing to you now. You are fortunate that you are not 'tempted'. Don't fall prey ok. Take care
2007-08-01 13:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say dont' even worry about it.. i think he wanted to ask you those questions to see if you were easy and if there was a reason to get to know you more, if you know what i mean.. he's not worth it at all.. and if not for that reason, then he just wanted things from your life so he could talk crap behind your back.. he's a loser, ignore him.. your better then that! good luck and best wishes!
2007-08-01 13:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you gave him too much information.
Let it go, let him go.
It happens, don't set yourself up for a fall by pursuing something that in the end is most likely not worth it.
2007-08-01 13:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got mad that u wouldnt tell him the things he wanted to know. but its not wrong on ur part, cuz he just cant be asking u things when u havent known each other that long.
2007-08-01 13:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cooperstown Coop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you not hug him...that might explain it...How about the personal questions....sounds like he either didn't like your answers or your not what he was hoping you would be like. Sounds like your better off not communicating with him anyways.
2007-08-01 13:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but I would say you deserve better he sounds kind of like a player..
2007-08-01 13:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋