Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

We have just about no money. Hubby has been working his bum off nonstop for the last 2 months but we still are struggling. He wants to go play poker tonight because he feels its been all work and no play (which he is right). But I am 9 months pregnant and am sick of staying home 24/7 with our 7 year old too. So I said no because money is tight and if I can stick it out (staying in 24/7 for the last 2 months with a 7 year old is not my idea of fun) then so can he. But I understand how he feels as well. So should I say yes or no?

2007-08-01 12:05:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I've been doing it for the past 4 years and now I hate it. The girls on the squad don't even talk to me anymore because they are just jealous of my boyfriend and a couple of them are mad because I won't introduce them to my brother. Plus, it takes up a lot of time. I hardly get to see my boyfriend as it is since my mom has forbade it. But my mom really wants me on the squadd since she was a cheerleader and she thinks it's good for me, even though I don't see how. How do I tell her I want to quit or should I quit at all?

2007-08-01 12:05:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 11 years old and i am going out with this guy. Im seeing him next Tuesday and Im afraid he might kiss me! I've never had a kiss before so i'm kinda nervous. and please. if your a grown-up looking at this don't give me one of your answers saying "la la la, your too young for kissing". Im really nervous, but i really wanna kiss him. any advice?

2007-08-01 12:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this wonderful LDS guy. His family absolutely loves me as well. We have so much in common and understand eachother so well. We don't argue either. We have gotten frustrated at each other but only talked it out. We have shared things with each other and done things with each other that we haven't in past relationships. I never thought I'd get married before our 1 yr anniversary. But how can I put a time limit on a relationship? If you know, you know right?

2007-08-01 12:02:54 · 18 answers · asked by moonstar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

DO YOU LIKE CLINGY YOUNG LADIES OR ALOOF ONES?I'M ASKING THIS QUESTION B/C I'M THE ALOOF TYPE!!!I'M CONFIDENT AND I LIKE TO GIVE MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER THEIR SPACE, AND I LIKE THE SAME IN RETURN.BUT IT SEEMS LIKE MOST MEN PREFER A WOMAN THAT IS INSECURE AND NAGS THEM?DO MEN REALLY LOVE DRAMA?DO YOU SEE ALOOFNESS AS A THREAT?THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR ANSWERING!!!

2007-08-01 12:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with any unsavory housekeeping or grooming trait of your husbands/live in boyfriend that you are unable to change long term?

I have a few pet peeves about my fiancee's bathroom rituals, nothing extreme but im not used to living with a man. We cant work it out we have tried! there are some things about me that annoy him so i can cope with these few things but i just need to get over them...how did u do it?

2007-08-01 12:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Where can I find cheap, single rings (man's gold band and a bit fancier ring/band for me) to put on our ringbearer pillow for our wedding? We don't want to use the real rings since the ringbearer is so young, and I've looked at Hobby Lobby and they don't really have anything, at least nothing single that isn't in a bag of like 100. Any suggestions on where to look?

2007-08-01 12:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by dancingmel02 2 in Weddings

tips on being a good person??

2007-08-01 11:59:08 · 17 answers · asked by seeming 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just so angry right now. I was supposed to hang out with this guy i really like today. A little before we were supposed to hangout he asks if i can do some things with him that i am NOT willing to do, because im very respectful with myself and my body, plus im saving myself for marriage. I told him i wouldn't do it. So i texted him earlier asking if we were still going to hang out and he says yea but he's a little busy. I told him to tell me when he's done with whatever he's doing and he hasn't. Guys can be such jerks sometimes! Why is that?!

2007-08-01 11:57:51 · 23 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 11:57:08 · 27 answers · asked by Boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I make myself beautiful? There's too much stuff about me that I'd change, which would probably be everything. I wish I could look like a porn star, but instead, I turn out like an ugly duckling! I envy them! I hate it! I really do!!!!

2007-08-01 11:55:39 · 31 answers · asked by ~*Wifey of a Veteran*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend just got into a fight now we have sorta made up but she says we cant be as close as we used to and she can "trust" me anymore but we didnt fite because i lied or anything and it was both of us she is blaming it all on me. but anyways shes a really good friend and i still want to hang out with her but how do i get her to "trust" me again? i have said sorry even tho it wasnt all my fault.

2007-08-01 11:54:13 · 2 answers · asked by Casey;* 3 in Friends

I hate my sister. She's selfish and uncaring. She always leave the house late at night and makes my mom cry. Who hates their siblings and why?

2007-08-01 11:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-01 11:50:59 · 26 answers · asked by ranjan 1 in Singles & Dating

....so, I am thinking I am going to get married within the next year and a half? And I have always thought about the "plans for my wedding....come on, what girl hasn't?? Anyway, I have always wanted a reception with no dinner, I wanted hors'd ovres (spelling) and cocktails with dancing and celebration....is that tacky? and what time would a wedding be for a reception with no dinner to allow the guests to have dinner BEFORE the wedding??? Any thoughts ? We have been discussing getting married, and I would rather have developed an opinion about this before we discuss any further......Serious answers only please.

2007-08-01 11:46:47 · 16 answers · asked by Princess_Baby_Bird 2 in Weddings

i have a guy in mind, and how can you be popular?

2007-08-01 11:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In many families i find there is a tug of war between the mother and the wife of the man due to possessiveness.

2007-08-01 11:40:25 · 22 answers · asked by jimmybond 6 in Family

me and my boyfriend live about 40mins away. and all we do is txt, i told him i wanted to talk to him on the phone sometimes, he said we could start that when he goes to college. which that made me a lil upset, i told him i love talking to him and he still said we can start that when he leaves. then i told him he was pissing me off, and he said ok call me.

2007-08-01 11:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by sam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i make friends on first day of my new school!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-01 11:39:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been working at my job at a car dealership for 8 years as a receptionist. The job was good because its so near my house and my sons school. It also pays well.

I was fired for punching a customer in the face for calling me a b itch. she called me a ***** because her mentally retarded son said hello and i ignored him. i told her i ignore most kids and that it has nothing to do with his disability.other then my own kids i hate kids.

this job is my first and only job i ever had. now when i go look for another job who will be my reference? i can no longer use the car dealership.

2007-08-01 11:38:23 · 13 answers · asked by Greater Glory 1 in Family

Any full-time workers that would be considered determined, confident and indepent end up being a stay at home mom? I was once that person and now find myself the EXACT oppiste and I hate it. Did this happen to you? What did you do about it?
Any advice for me?

I am a sahm for 2 years now.
Thanks in advance.

2007-08-01 11:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by jenna s 1 in Family

My boyfriend texted my phone the other day asking me what was up and called me his "half" later on that day he texted me that he loves me>

2007-08-01 11:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by Harlems Star 2 in Family

i thought that me and bf were getting back together, well i call him last nite to ask one last time and make sure that we were adn he says, " i dont know, im datin this other girl rite now." and i sade " well i thought u broke up w/ her" (long story) " i did but this hot girl asked me out and i couldnt resist." all i sade was "oh okay then bye!?" but he hurt me and i dont know how to tell him or wat i shud do!!! he really shudnt have led me on like that on break my heart AGAIN!!! boys r soooo stupid sometimes. i need help and advice. ill c him friday and i dont know wat i shud say 2 him! HELP!!! PLEASE!!!

2007-08-01 11:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 11:35:53 · 2 answers · asked by skatergirlx7 2 in Friends

Ok my bro just walked in the house and he said to me "Go do the garbage and recycling." And I said "Can't you go do it yourself?" and he got all mad at me and he said that he works all day and he shouldn't have to do anything! And he doesn't do anything! I ask him to clean up the bathroom from HIS mess and he says that he isn't the only one who uses it. Then our mom yells at me for having a messy bathroom. And I tell her its him and she tells me to just clean it because i use the bathroom too. His room is a mess and she doesn't yell at him but if my room is messy she will get all mad at me...and so I actually cleaned it and stuff...and its cleaner than his...I am tired of him what should I do?

2007-08-01 11:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yah...shouldn't you be allowed a little fun before you croak? Or do the wemen still get bent even with one foot in the grave?

2007-08-01 11:31:21 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just met this guy who is 19, but I am 15. I am always dating really mean guys, because they are a challenge. But he is different. He is so sweet and I actually really like this guy. I guess the older age makes him a challenge. Well this is one of the best guys I have ever talked to. We would usually communict by texting, but sometimes by phone. He took me to the movies and afterwards we had sex. He doesn't want a serious girlfriend right now, but I want to know how I can change that or make him want me. He will be leaving back for school in 2 weeks so I need help fast. I really want this boy.

2007-08-01 11:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year and I was thinking of having the men in jeans with the normal nice black jacket and tie. they would be wearing either nice white tennis shoes or the standard black shoes i can't find any pictures of a wedding party like this do you have any?

2007-08-01 11:30:29 · 22 answers · asked by i_have_questions 1 in Weddings

2007-08-01 11:28:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And at around what age group does the cheating subside. You'll probably see something like a bell curve if you do the stats.

Thanks,

Flavio

P.S. do people in their 70's and 80's cheat too? hmmm

2007-08-01 11:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce