I have just met this guy who is 19, but I am 15. I am always dating really mean guys, because they are a challenge. But he is different. He is so sweet and I actually really like this guy. I guess the older age makes him a challenge. Well this is one of the best guys I have ever talked to. We would usually communict by texting, but sometimes by phone. He took me to the movies and afterwards we had sex. He doesn't want a serious girlfriend right now, but I want to know how I can change that or make him want me. He will be leaving back for school in 2 weeks so I need help fast. I really want this boy.
2007-08-01 11:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The simple answer is - You can't.
The more important question is - Why would you want to?
Love needs to be mutual or it has no meaning.
2007-08-01 11:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. Sometimes these things take time. If it's meant to be then it will be, but 5 years is a huge age difference when you are 15 and 19 years old. He could get into serious trouble if he is caught dating a minor. Maybe he is waiting for you to grow up. I'm sure there are some nice boys your age. That being said, you're too young for a serious relationship anyway. Have fun while you're young!
2007-08-01 18:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone love you. You cant change them either. You're only 15. Take some time to grow up & have fun. He already got what he wanted and him saying he doesnt want a serious g/f right now, should have gave you a hint.
Let him go back to school and leave it at that. Find someone you own age.
2007-08-01 18:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date someone my own age. The number of years isn't the thing, it's the age you are. Thats illegal, and would make me wonder about his intentions.
2007-08-01 18:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by hotrodguy6218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you also want him to spend 15 to 25yrs in jail...just a FYI.
2007-08-01 18:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all he wants is sex and he got that out of you so i dout you could make he want you in a g/f way since he knows youy will give in again if he asks
2007-08-01 18:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋