i have a guy in mind, and how can you be popular?
2007-08-01 11:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let THIS guy "rape" you either ;););)
2007-08-01 11:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you canot ctually make him like you just for the simple fact that you can't control him or his feelings.
Be yourself; you'll be more popular than if you actually try to be popular. If you try to be popular (ie going with the flow cause it's what everyone has or do), you will actually come across as a fake.
who knows, by being yourself, this guy you have in mind might actually like you.
2007-08-01 18:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by jonkristoffer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying. You cannot "get" a guy to like you. I'm sure you have heard it before but you just need to be yourself and talk to him. And popularity...just don't bother.
2007-08-01 18:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean, how to attract a guy??
well if that is what you are asking for, then you ought then to remember this: "YOU CANNOT IMPRESS EVERYONE."
i am not discouraging you to impress a guy just to attract him. i am neither saying that it's bad.
but don't you think that it is better if the guy will have to be the first to show that he likes you rather than you who will be making the first move? if you are desperate for this guy, definitely you have to wait for him to tell you so. but in the meantime, try to be simple yet attractive to him. i believe you can be more popular if you will have to be yourself. my tip: wear a little perfume, apply little make-up or none at all, do not act like a model, just be yourself. guys like girls who do not act so obviously she likes the guy.
got what i mean?
2007-08-01 18:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really make a certain guy like you, but if you want to have a boyfriend just talk to guys and be yourself. and trying to become popular is not only hard but really shouldn't be one of your goals. just because girls are popular doesn't mean they are happy or nice. you dont want to be like them.
2007-08-01 18:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by cheerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but you can't make anyone like you... weather you are popular or not. They have to like you for you. Just put yourself out there and talk to him... thats all you can do. Good luck!
2007-08-01 18:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the last thing you need to worry about
Being raped by a guy and a girl in a week is stressful enough
not to mention vaejaejae needs your help as well
2007-08-01 18:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Scratchy_Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where nice clothes... dont look like a slob...be likable... so be nice to ppl and have them be nice back..... the rest relle has to do with the type of guy he is.... the kinda guy i like is into the pretty popular girls and is sorta a player... he liked me for a week and got over me so easily i still dunno why i like him but its just the way it is.... hopefully ur falling for the right kinda guy good luck
2007-08-01 18:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, if he's popular and snotty, don't bother. if he's nice, then just try to talk to him. relate to him. don't come on too strong or get clingy, though. if he's not popular, and that was another question, then just talk to him. be nice and relate.
2007-08-01 18:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by mdnic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be popular to get a guy to like you.
just be yourself, be niiice :D be funny.
& if he doesn't already like you for who you are,
oh well. move on. they'll be guys that already like you
just the way you are.
2007-08-01 18:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a guy like you, if you have to make him like you than he's not the right guy for you.
2007-08-01 18:48:25 · answer #11 · answered by Ari's Mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋