How can I...?

Question

How can I make myself beautiful? There's too much stuff about me that I'd change, which would probably be everything. I wish I could look like a porn star, but instead, I turn out like an ugly duckling! I envy them! I hate it! I really do!!!!

Because fake boobs guys like and most porn stars don't have an ugly face. They're very pretty. :(

Answer 1

u want to be a porn star??? well i dont know y but i have some pointers on being beautiful. if that is u in the pic then u r beautiful. cut ur hair in something u would never think of doing. buy things u see the ppl who are walking out of the store buying. and most inportantly.... dont wear to much makeup. because ppl notice and they think badly of u. but also remember that no one cares what u look like as long as u think you are beautiful. because naturl beauty comes from the inside, u have to beleive u r beautiful... dont make other ppl tell u.

Answer 2

Sounds like your having a pretty good pity party for yourself today. Instead of looking at all the negatives why not try and look at the positives in your life. You have four functioning limbs, a cognitive mind and from the picture I saw on your 360% you looked like a nice friendly girl. There are many others who would give their eye teeth to live in the world of which you do. Try and be a little more grateful for all the things you have and less complaining about things that you feel your missing. Life isn't all it's cracked up to be looking like a bloody porn star. Hope that I haven't been to blunt but that is the reality of the world. Hope you get feeling better about yourself and your appearance soon.

Answer 3

Get yourself some money, and get an appointment with Dr. Phil to get some plastic sugery!! It's the best way to make yourself beautiful, sorry, ugly duckling!



Or you can always just begin to accept yourself as you are, after all, you ARE going to spend the rest of your life with yourself, so why not look at your inner beauty (I'm sure you have some!!!) and smile! You truly are beautiful and you need to learn that on your own. You don't need someone telling you that you're beautiful unless you tell yourself that first in order to believe it. Porn stars don't make much money, try finding a better role model :) Good Luck! Here's a star and sorry for the above answer! Lol ;O

Answer 4

Just spend more time taking care of yourself. Eat well, exercise frequently, spend time applying make-up. Confidence is the most beautiful thing you can possess, so make sure you can start to feel good about yourself... Get a new haircut, buy some nice clothes. Just make yourself feel good, and the beauty will come.

And don't ever wish you could look like a porn star again. You don't really want that, I'm sure?

Answer 5

You want to look like a porn star? Porn stars are not beautiful-they look like plastic dolls. Nature is beautiful. Try to like what you have and don't let society or superstars determine how you feel about yourself.

Answer 6

Porn *star* is a misnomer. They are porn *performers*, not stars. The money is not very good, the lifestyle is very difficult e.g. very few have happy lives (the business is known for a large number of suicides) and some research has shown that 70% of porn performers (female *&* male) were sexually abused as children. Some theorise that to be capable of having sex with total strangers as they do, one has to be emotionally damaged. Why am I telling you this? Because many of these people get abused *because* of the way they look - especially women.

Think about this theory. All people have a 'life burden' i.e. something that they will inevitably learn about for reasons that they cannot control. For some people, this is learning how to carry on living after losing both legs in an accident after they have enjoyed fame as a famous track athelete; they don't know what the course of their life is to be, they have all their own wishes, and then - POW - they discover that they aren't controlling their own destiny. It has occured to me that beautiful people have a burden that is particular to them. Listen to Halle Berry talk and you'd think being beautiful was the worst thing in the world! They certainly have the fear of losing their looks. Imagine being famous as the 'most beautiful woman in the world' as Liz taylor was...and thenwaking up every single morning to look in the mirror and see 'normal'. When she walked out of the house, the world watched and photographed and talked. If she put on wiehgt, they *whispered*. Imagine being able to watch yourself immortalised on the screen, forever perfect, only to realise you're no longer 21, but 52 instead. Imagine how it feels to see those wrinkles ruin what was once perfect. This is just one part of the 'life burden' of the beautiful.
The people who are not born looking 'beautiful' have a 'life burden' too: theirs is the burden of desire to be wolf-whistled in the street; to receive a single Valentines day card - just once. To not have to stand against the wall at dances and watch the boys walk by to ask every *other* girl to dance.

However, for everything there is a price to be paid: for the beautiful woman, it is a huge burden that they must pay because they are only beautiful for a few short years, say from 16 - 35; for this they have to pay with suddenly not getting chatted yp quite so often, and noticing younger women catching the mens' eyes as she was so proud to do. She may have had years of wild sex - but suddenly she's looking a bit past it and starts to think about settling down - only by then the best looking men are looking at younger women (remember, men often get *better* looking as they grow older). She realises she'd best hurry up because her biological clock is ticking. Overnight she's turned into a desperate woman searching desperately for anyone who'll have her - only she's got a 'reputation' - *she's* not marriage material.
The price of the 'plain' has *already been paid*. You get to laugh at the worn out old tart who put all her eggs in one basket, and never put in any work on her personality. You'll learn to catch men with a different type of bait - humour, energy, fun, laughter, warmth, understanding, compassion, a big, kind heart, dependability, loyalty - these are all qualities that the beautiful often never learn because when they have their looks - they don't need to! When those looks go, these women are up the creek without a paddle! The man you get will be able to trust you. Beautiful people get their own kind - shallow butterflies who flit from one person to the next. Both partners are always afraid the other will cheat on them - because someone always fancies them.

I could go on...but space! You must learn to build your inner beauty and trust that as long as you let them shine forth with *confidence*, these inner qualities will be perceived and valued.

Answer 7

for starters porn stars are superficial and most of their body parts are fake....you look young, just eat right, exercise and be positive..a positive attitude really does improve the way you look....be happy and be positive, you are not an ugly duckling and don't try to be somebody you arent

Answer 8

If that's you in the pics in your profile, baby, there ain't nuthin' ugly about you. Take into account that nowadays porn stars are given hair styles and make up by professionals.

Answer 9

I think you have a different problem. You aren't ugly, just wear what makes you feel happy about you, and like who you are, as you are. As soon as you accept who you are, and that you'll never be a barbie doll (unrealistic), or porn star (eew), and like who you are on the inside, you'll like who you are on the outside. That's when you really become attractive.

Answer 10

Porn stars have had so many surgeries, they aren't even real. Every person has a list of things they don't like. Make a list of priorities and work on one item at a time. Maybe you are your own worst critic? I bet you look better to others than the way you look at yourself.