I'm just so angry right now. I was supposed to hang out with this guy i really like today. A little before we were supposed to hangout he asks if i can do some things with him that i am NOT willing to do, because im very respectful with myself and my body, plus im saving myself for marriage. I told him i wouldn't do it. So i texted him earlier asking if we were still going to hang out and he says yea but he's a little busy. I told him to tell me when he's done with whatever he's doing and he hasn't. Guys can be such jerks sometimes! Why is that?!
2007-08-01 11:57:51 · 23 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, now you know his true intention. don't worry, not all guys are shallow. you just need to keep on searching.
2007-08-01 12:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They are such jerks because with lots of guys it's all about them. The majority of guys don't bother asking a woman what she wants they just like to make all the decisions and expect the woman to follow and agree to everything they want.
2007-08-01 12:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Donna R 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actually, everyone can be jerks. Guys are sometimes ruled by their reproductive organs. Most girls go through a stage where they like guys they should not like, such as ones that have had many partners, abuse substances, etc.
You sound like a really nice person, and need to recognize you are probably going through the stage and liking someone who is not worth it. Maybe you need to look elsewhere for someone who shares your same values.
2007-08-01 12:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bird Breath 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not all guys are jerks and I'm sure you will find that out by yourself eventually.
This particular guy obviously got mixed signals. When he knew you would hang out with him, he read something into that and assumed it meant that you would want to have sex (or whatever it is you're unwilling to do). When he found out you weren't going to go along with what he had in mind, he decided he didn't want to be with you at all.
It appears that this guy just isn't for you and you should probably forget about him and move on.
By the way, I think it's wonderful that you're saving yourself for marriage. You deserve someone who will respect your wishes.
2007-08-01 12:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Simply because he was thinking he was going to get sex from you (apparently, that's what the "he asks if I can do some things with him that I am NOT willing to do..." and found out differently, so he invented the "busy" excuse to hurt you for not succumbing to his supposed need. Why? Because he's not getting what he wants, so he turns into a big, selfish baby. If I were you, I'd count my blessings and run like the wind!
2007-08-01 12:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He was only after one thing and I think you already know that. Move on and dont call him or text him anymore. He doesnt respect you and never will. Go and find a guy that will respect you, there are a lot of them out there
Hope this helps
:-))
2007-08-01 12:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-13 10:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, that's just the way the world works, some ppl r jerks and others just dont deserve to breathe. tell him to f off and find a guy who does deserve and respects u!! ;P
take care!
2007-08-01 12:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by janie rey 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they can...Aren't you glad that you found out that the guy was a jerk and just wanted to use you for one thing? Good riddance so don't be angry.
2007-08-01 12:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because he wants more than just to hang out he wants sex they can be beasts sometimes keep seeing new guys besides him let him know your busy too
2007-08-01 12:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they think they can get whatever they want from any girl they want and when you dont they totally ignore you and act like jerks.
2007-08-01 12:01:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋