i thought that me and bf were getting back together, well i call him last nite to ask one last time and make sure that we were adn he says, " i dont know, im datin this other girl rite now." and i sade " well i thought u broke up w/ her" (long story) " i did but this hot girl asked me out and i couldnt resist." all i sade was "oh okay then bye!?" but he hurt me and i dont know how to tell him or wat i shud do!!! he really shudnt have led me on like that on break my heart AGAIN!!! boys r soooo stupid sometimes. i need help and advice. ill c him friday and i dont know wat i shud say 2 him! HELP!!! PLEASE!!!
2007-08-01 11:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't see him on friday. He's just making you look like a fool. He's toying on you.
2007-08-01 11:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by singkit 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Show up on Friday with another guy - and see how HE likes it ;););)
But don't just grab any guy - use one of your (understanding) male friends. DON'T put yourself in a worse situation for a little spiteful revenge...
If that's not your sort of thing - then just DON'T see him on Friday (if at all possible). If you CAN'T get out of seeing him - then just act cold and indifferent towards him.
He hurt you badly, and it's obvious that he shows no REMORSE for his actions - don't fuel his ego by showing your TRUE emotions. Let him THINK that you have COMPLETELY forgotten about him - in other words, give him a taste of his own medicine.
After that, take all the time you need to heal - and do not speak to him again until you feel that you can handle doing so. And if that NEVER ends up happening - then he has lost both a great friend, as well as a FAR better lover than this "Flavour of the week" he's "seeing" now...
2007-08-01 11:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone. You are better than that, don't sink to his level. If you see him on Friday try to act like you are just fine without him. Don't play into his game. You need to find a man, not a boy, who will treat you with respect. If he wants to go out and play around then you don't need him. Not to mention what he may bring back to ya - If you know what I mean! There are so many loving, respectable men out there. Don't limit yourself to him. Have fun - hang out with the girls - enjoy life! You only get one chance! Don't spend it chasing after Mr. Wrong & miss meeting Mr. Right!
2007-08-01 11:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by MIRACLE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to see him in the first place???You being a sucka for his love..if you don't wanna get hurt again, don't see him and don't hang out with him and move on, hes a jerk, keep it moving, don't waste your time on him
2007-08-01 11:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a real *** make him wish he hadnt hurt you. he sounds like hes trying to make you jelouse turn up the heat! makeup clothes make him want you sister thats all i can say after pretend he can have it then drop him like its ground hog day you dont want a jerk for a bf. ps i sympathise for you sister but revenge is sweat!
2007-08-01 11:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date another guy. Getting over someone takes time, so just take it little by little, soon you'll be over him. Best of luck.
2007-08-01 11:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by vw chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.Yes I agree with you.Boys are stupid somtimes.
What you need to do is.
FORGET ABOUT HIM.
If he wanted to get back with you he would have.(i know it sucks hearing that).
And please. if he "couldnt resist"another girl.he's stupid.
Honestly forget ABOUT HIM.
Pretened nothing ever happend.And if he does like you he'll see that you dont care anymoe and he`ll come running back to you.!
2007-08-01 11:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by WHUDAFXUP!? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back out with him, He's only going to hurt you again.
2007-08-01 11:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by bullfrog192 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is move on and watch he will come back to you if he doesnt then he is not worth your time and move on
2007-08-01 11:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by babygirlcbcrazy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he aint worth it.
2007-08-01 11:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by lotsoflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋