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2007-08-01 14:16:01 · 23 answers · asked by bertha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we went out b4 we were freinds now we are best friends/ a couple and i made himm promise b4 i answered him that we would be best friends 4ever but will that promise always stand (he is 13 and i am 12)
2007-08-01 14:30:27 · update #1
i know exactly how you feel because right now im dating my best best best friend and i have put 100% trust in him just like i bet you have. i have talked to him about this and even if we were to break up he will always be my best friend because he was my best friend way before he was my boyfriend. i just think you need to talk to him about it.
2007-08-01 14:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that goes "Friendship often ends in love; but love into friendship, never." Basically meaning that yeah you can fall for your best friend, and be together, but it also means that if you break up you won't be able to go back to that. I am not saying that is isn't possible, but there would always be those feeling between you two, to where things wouldn't ever be the same again, i have seen it happen between people. In the end all I am really saying is that it can be possible to be friends when or if you break up, but most likely it wouldn't happen. There would just be too much between you guys for it to be possible.
2007-08-01 21:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating your friend can be the greatest thing, you already have a solid foundation and know each other pretty well. Chances are if you break up you might lose the friendship, but if you are both willing to work at it, it's always possible to remain friends. I'm friends with several of my exes and even though it's hard sometimes I'm really glad we stayed in touch. Just enjoy your relationship for now and don't worry about breaking up!
2007-08-01 21:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly8373992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bertha a lot of it depends on how mature you and he handle it. My first wife and I married when we were too young and after we split, until this day, remain very close and good friends. Remember also we can never have too many friends so value your friendship even if you don't make it as a couple.
2007-08-01 21:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up. If you're best friends before and now you're a couple, what more can you possibly want? That's the best situation there is. Get married and break up when you die.
2007-08-01 21:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by thelairdjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely not. but sometimes the friendship comes back after the hurt is gone and the feelings have subsided. good luck! usually the best friend relationships are the ones that last!
2007-08-01 21:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how your relationship ends. if it end on good terms, ya can still be friend. If it ends in a bad term like cheating, the friendship is over. Thats the risk you have to take if you dating your best friend. I wouldnt date my best female friend
2007-08-01 21:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er....it's really hard to maintain the same level of relationship after your break up with your girlfriend if she used to be your best friends. You'll still be friends, of course, but the same level of closeness (as best friends) won't be there.
2007-08-01 21:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Big C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who breaks up with who and how the two of you break up. If it's a mutual thing then you'll probably be fine but if it ends in a big fight then probably not.
2007-08-01 21:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the thought out of your head. don't think what if. think positive think and beleive that you will be together forever- your best friends thats a great start- don't be thinking or asking negative questions that has a way of coming to past.
2007-08-01 21:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋