I'm still shy with girls and not sure what to do. What's wrong with me? I wasn't even interested in girls till late in high school. I've never dated, at all. Never done anything with a girl.
What do I do? ......Am I weird? I know I'm not gay, I like girls very much, I'm just not sure if I'm attractive or what I should do. Girls will think I'm weird/gay because I haven't dated, right?
I feel so awkward. Please help.
2007-08-01 15:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no your not a freak some people just start dating at different times. My bf now never had a gf until me and we started dating when he was 19 and now we have been together for 4years. I actually love that i am the only girl he has ever been with it makes me feel special. So, just start talking to girls and you never know one of them may be your next girlfriend. best of luck to you! Just dont stress that you never had a gf just enjoy life and things will come when u least expect it.
2007-08-01 15:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by davidslilprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 29 and do not have a boyfriend. I have not found the guy that I have good chemistry with. I would say that you are normal. I would never be with a guy who slept or dated 5 million girls. To many diseases..I respect a guy who takes his time to find the right woman rather than just choose any cow in the pasture. If you are shy, you could let them know at first...Everyone is shy on their first date, I never went out on a real date with a guy until I finished college.
2007-08-01 15:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you're a freak or weird at all. i actually think it's attractive that you've never dated because it seems that when you do find someone to go on a date with, it will be even more special. it seems that you lack confidence, so before you ask any girl out, you should work on that first because girls like a guy with confidence. in a nutshell... i don't find you gay, i don't find you a freak, and i don't find you wierd, i think it's sweet that you haven't dated and whoever you end up dating (and i'm sure you will when the time's right) will feel special because of it.
2007-08-01 15:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my GOD, please! Stop! You're NOT weird, NOT gay, and NOT unusual. It wasn't until AFTER college that I seriously dated. No joke. I hate it when people think they're odd for not having dated yet, and they're only 20. Please. You don't have to rush into things, like everyone wants you to, and thank GOD you didn't. I'm happy to hear there is at least ONE normal person left out there with good morals and values. If there's a girl you like, damn it, go for it! Who cares if she's already taken or says no? At least you'll find out, right? And if you never ask, you'll never know. What if she had said yes, and you never asked? Just go for it, mate. I'm a girl, and I don't think you're awkward or weird or gay at all for having never dated. Like I said, I was out of college before I had a serious date. You just have to wait for the right time and right person. Wait until it feels right! Hell, the guy I ended up marrying wasn't even from my original country. We met in his home country. See? I didn't even like the guys in my own country! I think any girl would be lucky to have such a nice guy as you. Do whatever feels right, sweetie.
2007-08-01 15:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you have allowed most people your age group to pass you by. Things that they were doing five years ago, you still have not done yet. From the way you write, I suggest that you may need some therapy. I'm not trying to be mean, but you clearly have some issues and hang ups, and talking them through with a professional may help you. The sooner you get a grip on these issues the better. Then you can play catch up and join the game.
2016-05-20 04:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I was just thinking the same thing... except, I'm a girl and I've never dated and I'm almost twenty and all my younger siblings are dating and I'm not. I feel like a pathetic loser, and everyone always tells me that I'm pretty... and I know I'm smart. So why hasn't this happened for me? I dunno. But anyway, if you are a weirdo, so am I.
2007-08-01 15:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Skyla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I turn 20 next year in January & I'm in the same boat as you dude, I'm still a virgin(obviously), all I've done is kiss a girl.
2007-08-02 23:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by introvertedguy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost 22 and never dated. Thought I was the only one! =)
2007-08-01 15:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by JoGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost 29 and never dated. Does that seem weird? Stop your bitching.
2007-08-01 15:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain what your deal is and they will not have a problem with you. as far as what to do, treat them as you would your other friends, just pay more attention to them and be nice. It's all downhill grom there.
2007-08-01 15:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by topofthefoodchain 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋