My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and about 6 months ago he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he has never done before but it never bothered me since he satifies me when we make love although thru the yrs i have often wondered what it was like..Well been 6 months since he said this and he has yet to do it yet and everytime after we would make love i would ask him why he hasnt yet and he would either say "im going to" or "i will" or "next time"..At the time he told me this he said he has been thinking about it and wanting to do it for awhile but didnt know how i would feel about plus he said he thought it would be something i would like..I have mentioned this to him for about a month cause i figure why bother..Although i have never ask for this i have often wondered thru the yrs what it was like and i was very hopeful when he told me this but now i feel a little disappointed and let down that he hasnt done it yet..
2007-08-01 14:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have always given him oral and i love doing that.Like i said i havent mentioned this to him in about a month..Should i not mentioned this to him anymore and see what happens..When i have mentioned it to him he seems to get really annoyed and i dont know why cause he is the 1 that brought the subject up NOT me.
2007-08-01 14:57:32 · update #1
Always hearing "next time" or "im going to" or "i will" really gets old.
2007-08-01 14:58:23 · update #2
No jax he hasnt i was his first girlfriend.
2007-08-01 15:01:12 · update #3
Well he i have ask him this if he is ever gonna do and everytime he says "im going to"
2007-08-01 15:08:17 · update #4
Maybe he has never done oral on a woman before and is nervous that he won't please you as much.
2007-08-01 14:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's really giving mixed signals isn't he? It seems like he doesn't want to do it, but then why did he bring it up in the first place? I think you should just straight up ask him if he ever really plans on giving you oral, and if he doesn't why not. If its somthing you really want to experience you should tell him so before the next time you have sex. You've given him oral for years, its time for him to repay his debts.
2007-08-01 22:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by HePunksMeNot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he is looking for oral on him by you, just say something like, "No, it's your turn. You've been talking about it for 6 months, now, and I'm tired of getting excited just thinking about it and you never following thru."
2007-08-01 22:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've been together for so long doesn't mean he isn't nervous about something like oral sex. He might be afraid he'll do it wrong and you won't like it. He might feel better if you talk him through it and tell him what you like and don't. Communication is the best way to go with this one, even if he gets aggravated...
2007-08-01 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by coconut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.....he really needs to do that for you. I think becuase he brought it up is becuase he feels badly that he hasnt but he is REALLY nervouse of failing?
2007-08-01 22:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by MadKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋