i hate my life ?

Question

you know the song by simple plan welcome to my life that is my theme song
i am fat
mom's an alcholic
dad's a workohlic
brothers a popular snob
one friend and nobody to talk to i am lonley all the time and am only here to work and clean the house am i a outcast a loser and is my life going to go any where
no one will probably answer this no body likes me or notices me i watch theose movies where the girl gets the awsome man and has someone to talk a fortune teller told me i would get married and have 2 girls and a boy but i don't even think i will have a boyfriend !! is my life hopeless how would i get a boyfriend and people to like me i think i am a likeable person

Answer 1

you should have some more self confidence.
you've gotten 25 answers to your question, so obviously somebody cares.
anyway.
you don't have to have a boyfriend to be happy.
cheer up
:)

Answer 2

okay i have no idea how old you are...but I'm sure that you have much more growing up to do and that while your life may look like it's going no where now. growing up is hard and it's even harder under circumstances like yours.

you WILL find happiness and you WILL find someone. There is someone out there for everyone. and at that sometimes there are many someone's in people's lives. You'll be just fine.

Try to look at the good things in your life instead of the negative things all the time. And when you surround yourself with good things and good people and think good thoughts, suddenly your life will seem so much better!!!

Answer 3

1. Your life will only change when you make it change.
2. Lose weight.
3. You can't control your parents or your siblings.
4. Make more friends.
5. Do your chores then you'll have time for you.
6. Movies are make believe, your life will never be like that.
7. Fortune tellers are only after one thing...money, and they will tell you what they think you want to hear and are very good at reading people.
8. If you want to be liked, then you have to like others.
9. Go talk to your school counselor, you need self-confidence and self-esteem.

Life is what you make it. If you only see the negative, you will only get negative.

Answer 4

I wonder how old you are.The first thing to remember is thas things like you mentioned about your parents have nothing to do with you. I'm going to guess that you are late middle school to high school? Please remember that as your parents problems are not because of you or anything that predicts who you will be in the future, high school is not the real world and if I had it to do again, I would use it as a basis to plot the rest of my life beyond that! Do really well so that you are in a position to have many choices in your future. You can leave your family and the life you hate and go where ever you want regardless of what they want. Get a scholarship, its not as hard as people think! Get yourself really happy so that you feel so good about yourself that nothing else will matter! I think there is a lot of hope for you and you seem really nice!!

Answer 5

sorry about the hard times ... you have got to find something that will make you happy .. do you have any hobbies? if you are REALLY fat and not just saying that ... make a routine ... go for walks and watch what you eat .... is there a way to get your mom help? all brothers are obnoxious snobs... ... nothing is like what you see in the movies... NOTHING..

once you have a better self esteem other people will see that and not feel like backing off from you... don't get yourself down. life sucks for most everyone... it gets better i promise! you have to get out and talk to people and make more friends ... if they judge you for your looks you don't want them in your life anyway... if you want those children and a husband you have got to work for it... your life is not going to go anywhere if you stand still... only you can do something about that ... look at how your family is and learn to be a better person from it... don't fall into the same state that your mom or dad is in... your better than that. AGAIN dont let your self get down..IT GETS BETTER I PROMISE. you may still have some problems in life but you have to work for what you want. that man is out there and you will find him ... you be happy .

Answer 6

Well no wonder with that attitude. I haven't exactly had a wonderful life either:
My Mom is an ocean away
My Dad was an abusive alcoholic
My Brother was murdered by a drug addict
I have one TRUE friend who I rarely see anymore
I got stood up on a date last week(he had a good reason though)
I got fired from my job for something I didn't do

I could go on and on and on but I won't because you are young and allot is not suitable for your ears. You can change your weight and your popularity, and believe it or not you will find that perfect someone one day. You got it easy compared to allot of people.

Answer 7

No one's life is hopeless. Everyone has down times but you keep moving. You'll find a great guy for you and you'll eventually have your two girls and a boy. I'm sure people already think you're a likeable person but just try to be friendly to people and it should help

Answer 8

You problably are a likable person, you just need to show it. Having a negative outlook on life will make people think your unapproachable and mean. If your a positive person, it will show. Try joining a sport or school activity, getting to know people more. If you just go up to people, be nice, and just talk to them, you will find yourself with more friends. About the boyfriend thing, you really don't need a boyfriend to survive. But if you want one, try just getting to know the guy first and then who knows, maybe he'll like you!

Answer 9

A counsellor or therapist would be ideal to help you with any insecurties that you feel about your life... but if you are feeling lonely and want to make more friends than the best thing to do is get involved in your community , do some volunteer work, or join a sport or a class etc. in order to meet new people.

Answer 10

to tell you the truth i don't believe in fortune tellers but those are you believes and i respect them....now the only way you can make people like is if you believe in yourself ....you can't go around calling your self a loser and an outcast....what you need to do is look at yourself in the mirror and it may sound crazy but point out the positive things about you and it'll help you alot.and DON'T BE NEGATIVE...and my best advise live for yourself don't live for those people that criticize you....every girl is beautiful in their own way...believe that

Answer 11

God says in Psalm 139: 3-18 - About YOU

For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother's womb
I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made,
Marvelous are Your works,
And that my soul knows very well,
My frame was not hidden from you,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully made in the lowest part of the earth.
Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
And in Your book they all were written,
The days fashioned for me,
When as yet there were none of them.
How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How great is the sum of them!
If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand;
When I awake, I am still with You.

So you see, God knew that you were going to be born even before you were formed in your mother's womb. He loved you even before you were born. I don't understand why some things happen in children's lives, but I know that God loves you and he made you special for him. Try and pray and spend some time with God and read the Bible. True happiness only comes from our relationship with God. But first you must learn to see what God sees in you and how much he loves you. If no one else loves you, he does. And he also says that when your mother and father forsakes you, he would be your mother and father.

All the best!