Is it possible to remain in a relationship w/ someone who has broken your trust???!!!?

Question

Elaborate! If so, how do you think that person should go by regaining your trust? Serious answers only, thx in advance!!!!!

Answer 1

it is possible. but this is touchy ground.
i have this thing. this proves to me how much the person who betrayed my trust cares about me.
you need to give yourself some time to cool off. and if your still steamin and they want to talk, you tell them that youll talk when your ready. my sister betrayed me with violence that lets just say didnt turn out well.i didnt speak to her for 6 months. now even though my mom amd family was pressuring me to talk to her i was like hell no. she needs to prove to me that she will never pull that. but eventually i believe that if this person wants it enough, eventually everyone deserves a second chance. when you re enter the relationship , make it very clear that this is the second and final chance. if they make that same mistake again, there will be no again. and with that this is where you need to pay attention. once you let someone into your life again, and give them another chance, the most important thing you need to do is let it go. never think about the betrayal, look, youll never forget because you learn from the experience. you learn the signs and everything, but you need to let it go. never bring it up again.and dont ever think about it or worry about it. if they do it again you can be secure in the fact that you will kick their *** to the curb and you will find better. i did. its up to the person to prove themselves to you. remember we all screw up. no matter how big or small. most people deserve a second chance depending on how horrible the betrayal. i learned this through experience.

Answer 2

It is one of the hardest things to do. And it depends on how much trust they have broken. I was in a relationship with this guy that cheated , got another girl pregnant, lied, play stupid little games, etc. I pretty much found out all at once, which really sucked. 6 years later I see this guy. He claims he has changed and tells me how he messed things up and that we should get married and have children. All that ran throw my head was that I have been down that road already... and do not want to go back.

Trust is hard to gain and easy to break. Once someone breaks your trust, it can take years before you regain trust in that person (or trust may never be regained). Regaining trust takes time and effort.

Answer 3

Once trust is broken its always gone. Its the hardest thing to get back. Because there will always be doubts in the other partner's mind about their bf or gf. See if you are wondering if your other half is always lying or keeping something from you then its not a relationship. Its more like an investigation until you start searching through their stuff to interrogate them with. No need to play good cop/bad cop in this situation. If you don't trust the person just get out. Don't make the situation any worse than it already is.

Answer 4

Yes, it is possible but maybe you should ask yourself if you can or want to remain in a relationship with someone who has broken your trust. Are you willing to let him gain it back or not?

I also think it would depend on what he did. Was it done on purpose or accidently? I can't elaborate if you don't supply the details.

Talk to each other about it after your anger and/or hurt has subsided. Maybe together you can work out a solution.

Answer 5

Its possible, but very unlikely. If you are regarding cheating, the only thing that will be on your mind while he is gone is if he is really where he says he is, or if he comes home late you may wonder 'where did he just come back from'. its too much of a headache. So me personally, i could not, will not remain with someone I cannot trust.

Answer 6

Yes. It's not about them regaining your trust. It's about you accepting that you had a part in the problem too. Once you accept that you were part of the problem, address the real problem, work to solve it, then the rest is easy. What they did was wrong, but what you did was wrong too. After that is acknowleged and accepted, then you have to give them trust back. It's not about earning it. You either give it or you don't. You stay or you don't.

Answer 7

you can but it isnt heathy because no matter how hard you want to trust them again you can't that easy he have to gain that trust back he as to show you that your trust will never be broken again
BUT in my opinion you guys need to be seperated and if he loves you a lot he will change his was and he will gain your trust but that will take time and you can find someone else that will not break your trust in the first place by the time you might trust the guy again

Answer 8

No. relationship is all about trust. when someone breaks your trust, you will nvr fully trust them again. if you cant trust your partner, then y waste your time trying to make things work. you will always be questioniong him and always have that doubt in the back of your mind that he might be doing something behind your back. in life, there are already to many ppl who you cant trust. y spend ur life with someone who you cant even trust.

Answer 9

It is possible...but why would you want to be in a relationship that revolves around lies. Whatever happened, that person needs to make it up to you and show you that you can trust them again. If they cheated on you, once a cheater always a cheater is all I have to say about that.

Answer 10

My answer is no. Once you completely lose trust in your partner, you will never 100% trust them again. Even if this person is genuinely sorry, you'll always wonder if he or she will destroy your trust again. You would not have this parinoia with someone new that you have trust with.