we started out as friends. i refused to unveil how i felt for him beacuse i felt we werent heading anywhere anyway. he's rich, i'm poor. but after a couple of years of just being friends, we held me and kissed me one evening. i was dumstruck and all the love i kept inside came flooding in. i wasnt able to contain anymore how i felt for him..we exchanged iloveyou's.but ours has been kept in oblivion.we loved each other but the world didnt know.i yielded to that set-up to protect both of us. afterall, i'm a singlemom.he belongs to an affluent,conservative family.we both knew his entire clan (as well as his friends)would detest him if they found out about us.a coupel of weeks ago he confessed.guilt is consuming him slowly.guilt from having to hide from his family.i kindv understood him.he just doesnt want his family to feel as if he'd betrayed them by loving someone who didnt deserve him..we both admit its best for us to part.but what do we do?we love each other still..i love him still.
2007-08-01 18:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by theMuse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love can take you further in life then any riches. It shouldn't matter what the family thinks about the situstion. He should not care what anyone thought, even if it meant losing everything. Just because you are not rich like them and you are a single mom, does not give any one who is rich and distinquished to look down on you. Most people don't even get a chance to love in this world, and it would be ashamed to see you two throw it away because of what people think, regardless if it's family, and especially cause of money. If I was in his shoes I would say to hell with everything else, I'm going to be with my baby.
2007-08-01 18:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though this guy has gotten one over on you. I know he claimed to have loved you, but look at the facts. He you as a friend, then as a lover and was not willing to admit it to his family? If he reallly loved you, he wouldn't care what they thought. Don't let this guy do this to you. Find someone who is worthy of you. In my opinion, you are too good for him!
2007-08-02 01:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by hello molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you both reach a level of maturity, it will be possible to continue a real relationship. If that's still not possible, your combined passions arent sincere enough to withstand a true relationship.
2007-08-02 01:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you should fight for this relationship. His family should accept you if they want him to be happy.
2007-08-02 01:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel you don't deserve him then ma bey you don't.
2007-08-02 01:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋