Ok Im in Juinor high And My dad`s Friend Is ALWAYS Flirting with me evertime i see him i go up and talk to him.. and he always says I am Cute And To say in School And Gives Me Good Advice..... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?????
2007-08-01 17:59:05 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey dont worry about it hes not flirting with you your being too dramatic if hes your dads friend then hes just acting like a father figure or something like different people have different personalities and thats just his he doesnt want to have sex or have a crush on you or anything hes just beiing nice
2007-08-01 18:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because an older man compliments you and pays attention to you doesn't mean that he is 'flirting'. If he's known you for a long time, he probably still sees you as an awkward little girl and is trying to help you have self-confidence.
On the other hand, there is a line. If someone like this crosses it, mention it to your father or mother immediately. The line is called "inappropriate touching." If it happens, don't allow it to continue even one more time. Make it clear to your parents that you do not want to be around that kind of person and that you intend to avoid any further social contact with him.
2007-08-02 01:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So i have a very similar situation. There is an older guy (were talking early 50's) whose wife is good friends with my mom and every time he sees me he makes a bee line over and then will proceed to tell me how nice i look and how pretty i am. Its really creepy and i thought that i was just being paranoid to start with and he was just being nice. But then he would come over to our house to "see my mom" for no apparant reason and then ask to see me even when i wasnt there. So finally my parents thought it was weird and realized that i wasnt just exaggerating and cut off contact with him completely. So i guess the moral of the story is that you should trust your instincts-if he makes you feel uncomfortable and you dont trust him being around you then make sure your never alone with him and talk to you dad. He might just brush it off but at least then he will be more aware of the situation and will take note if the guy is paying more attention to you than he should be at his age.
I hope this helps you out some-as i said i went through it so i know it is a scary thing to deal with if your not sure whats going on!
2007-08-02 01:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by missdaisy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he's really "flirting" with you. I don't understand... is he a real creep about it or something. I mean... good advise isn't a bad thing. He probably looks at you like a daughter figure and he's trying to give you confidence. Although there is a fine line there. If he gets touchy feely or trys to take it to another level than kick him in the balls and tell your dad. Just don't make him out to be a creep if he's really not.
2007-08-02 01:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he does think you are cute and hopefully he is just being a uncle like figure and not a perv.
Be nice, but I would still be in the room with him and your dad both or someone else just in case.. its probably nothing but its best not to give people the opportunity to in a period of weakness do something stupid.
2007-08-02 01:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by sociald 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are a cute young girl and he thinks you need to stay in school because you are young. Sounds like he's a nice guy and only wants the best for you.
2007-08-02 01:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here it is A.) He is either trying help you and he really cares or- B.)He really is flirting with you and he see it as a good opportunity to talk to you. If he does this all the time watch out, if its infrequently don't sweat it he just a tripper.
2007-08-02 01:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you need to tell your dad to stop inviting this guy over! Your dad will probably wring the guy's neck, but at least he won't HIT ON YOU anymore!
He sounds like a pedophile and needs to be tamed. Talk to your dad. NOW. You could save some kid from being hurt.
2007-08-02 01:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Emily J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like your dad's friend being polite to you, what part of that do you take for flirting? I think you're immature and reading too much into it.
2007-08-02 01:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a friendly guy with your best interest at heart. Not a bad thing unless there is some odd behavior that makes you feel nervous. then you need to avoid him
2007-08-02 01:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋