I've been with my bf for 2 years, but lately i've been complaining so much because he's always with his friends and always at work. We dont go out that much anymore and we don't do anything much together even we see each other a lot.
I feel so bored about our routine. I've been telling him to change or whatever. He hasn't shown that he's changed. He even gets worse and even get mad back at me and even yells too when i try to tell him . He doesn't get me at all and he doesn't seem to understand what i want and what i like. What should i do ? Sometimes i feel like to have another bf to forget him, but i love him and i want him to do things for me.
2007-08-01 23:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by AL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet he is seeing someone else.
Call Cheaters. I love that show. Make sure you act really ghetto so I can have a good laugh.
2007-08-01 23:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had better stop him now, or you will live the rest of your life miserable. Tell him that if he really loves you, he will try to understand your side and some to some sort of compromise. If he refuses, pack your things and leave. It will only get worse. Take it from someone that spent 12 years miserable, then finally had to leave because i could not take any more. I wasted 12 years of my life, and have nothing to show for it. Everything was bought in his name, so I left with almost nothing!! I am the one that originally had brought all of the furniture and things to the relationship. When it got old we replaced it. All was bought in his name, including the house. I sold my place to live with him. Now I am starting over again!!!
2007-08-02 06:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak with once and do not keep complaining again and again coz things said more than once is like a nag for guys. Also when you are speaking do not expect any explanation from his side. Let him know the advantages to ur relation if both of u do things together. Don't speak about disadvantages of him being like the way he is now.
If he is a reader get him a book about relations coz humans are like that somethings that we dont know a book can tell u.
2007-08-02 06:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Maverick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight like you told us,you,ve been together for 2 years so you just do not give up so easy!If he does not want to make the effort to be more compliant to your needs then maybe you are growing tired of eachother and you should kick him to the curb.It is that old question,"Where do you see yourself in 5 years!!?"Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-08-02 06:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by veryslickmick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds he is Bored of the relationship and you and has already found ways where he can get what he wants through his friend circle which you are not aware of and he at this point of time is either at a stage or is already cheating on you behind your back.......it more or less sounds like he wants to split off with you and wants to get off the relationship.......sorry ....but thats what all it relects in all.
You both need to sit down and talk to one another.
2007-08-02 06:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a fat woman once who had a normal sized, handsome boyfriend and I wondered what was the secret of their success and she told me, she said, just make sure they're crazy about you, the rest aren't worth it.
I think it's good advice.
If dude wanted to hang out with you and do awesome stuff with you he would. Since he doesn't, the hell with him, there's plenty of men out there that would love you up and show you a great time.
Good luck.
- Rob
2007-08-02 06:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by robertanthonybryn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things such as what ?? ... and what r the things that u r doing to him .. are u doing anything .. im not taking sexually ..... well try the simple hints rather the upfront approach such as slide whatever u want or feel like doing in a conversation a see what heppens
2007-08-02 06:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by gasso99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens usually after two-three years after a relationship...if u rilli luv him...and want this to get rite...try to be his friend agn....
dun taunt him....cuz things cud get worse then,,,,,
first be his friend and share feelings that only friends share...
i know this will be hard...but trust me this will work....
dun show him attitude!!!!
stop fiting wid him on things that dun rilli matter....
be a friend!!!
2007-08-02 06:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by rockin gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is bored with you....your relationship has 'expired'...move on or waste precious time 'patching' things up which will never work.
2007-08-02 06:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on, I'd say
2007-08-02 06:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by Katkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋