theres this girl i liek at my work ,she like me also but has a boyfriend i mean you just know you know when someone like you, anyway she is leaving, i've only known her in a short while
and last night wrote her a letter, maybe i was hoping that even though she is leaving she'll know how i feel, i mean i really like her and there is so much i want to say ,what do you think should i just leave things as they are or tell her before its too late
2007-08-01 22:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd have to vote against it, the woman has a boyfriend, even if you think she's interested in you it's risky and not very ethical. Plus if you pour out your heart in a letter and give it to her out of the blue, she might be a little freaked out. I don't think it's worth it. Unless you just have to let her know how you feel, then go for it, but don't expect anything to come out of it.
2007-08-01 22:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting problem. If you really like her, I think you must show her your feeling right away before it's too late. If she likes you too, it will come to a good end. But if she don't, you won't lose much, because she's leaving, then you can know exactly her opinion. If the latter happens, look for another girl^^.
2007-08-01 22:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by What? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, be a Man, tell her how you feel about her. Dont give her a letter, cause that she may show to her boyfriend and then there may be war. So phone her or better still meet up with her and tell her how you feel. Dont be shy. Be confident.
2007-08-01 22:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by live and let live 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her how you feel who knows maybe she feels the same way but maybe she doesnt think that there is someone else out there !! And that someone could be you and you'll never know unless you try it could only help so dont give up! and good luck!
2007-08-01 22:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by cecilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the letter says, really. if it is you confessing your love to her, thats a little creepy. its all about how you say things. if it is just a nice letter expressing your thoughts and talking about her life, and you casually mention that youll miss her and you hope you can keep in touch and you really care for her, then thats ok
2007-08-01 22:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 01:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by damaris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU DOING ASKING THIS QUESTION?!? GO AND GIVE HER THE LETTER!!!! maybe she won't leave after she knows that you like her
2007-08-01 22:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by laurapinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello? technology! email her at work! if her boyfriend finds the letter youll have a broken face and a broken heart!
2007-08-01 22:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by momma-to-morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's leaving, send it. If she rejects you, you don't have to see her everyday anymore.
Also, if she accepts then you can go out and if things don't work out, you still won't have to see her everyday.
2007-08-01 22:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her the letter. its obviously upsetting you, and you need to get it off your chest
2007-08-01 22:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by countrygirl55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋