I have met someone on a dating site and we hit it off almost immediately?

Question

Now into our 3rd month together we know almost everything about one another. However half into that period we started getting more 'intimate' pouring out our sexual desires and fantasies, aka cybering every chance we had and it was him who initiated it . Is there a real problem here? and how do you see this relatioinship going to the next level

I am asking because at the time we do 'it' it feels quite natural, but later on I feel silly and at times 'dirty' to say the least, although he keep assuring me that he 'respects' me a lot.
Am I being used to fulfil his sexual desires or am I over-reacting and should just go with the flow and see where this leads?
We 'still' talk forever every chance we have and he calls, and we text each other every single day.

Answer 1

Only time will tell whether or not this relationship will go to the next level. That would have been the case even if you guys had first met face to face at a party or something. It's only been three months. So hope for the best because you never know, this could be the start of something really beautiful.

However, my advice is to cut out the cyber sex, or at least keep it to a minimum. I say this because when you're meeting someone over the internet, it's really hard to tell what that person is after. A friend of mine always meets guys she likes online, but she never listens to me when I tell her to try to keep sex out of the conversation because too many times it turned out that that's all the guy was after. What does she go and do? She bought a webcam, which of coarse, only led to more cyber sex and her feeling empty again.

By now this guy has a good feeling of whether or not he's really into you. If he is, then he'll be okay with you guys cutting down on or eliminating the sex talk. It's hard enough getting to know someone in real life without sex getting in the way, let alone over a computer. Have you two met in real life yet? If you haven't, then when you do, make sure you meet him in a safe, secure and public place during daylight hours and don't let him know where you live until you're absolutely sure he's not dangerous and it's safe to do so. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.

Answer 2

Sounds like all he wants is to get excited by your sexual fantasies. Don't you realize how many perverts are on those sites? Many of them are even married and lie about it. If he really wanted to get to know you, he would be talking about the person you are, not about your sexual fantasies. You had better be careful. You could not only get your heart broken, but you could get hurt.

Answer 3

time will tell,,,, be very cautious !!!!