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why do people as young as 11 feel the need for sex their still KIDS? they claim its love but when i was that age i had a different crush each week claiming its love but it was a crush. also why do these 16+ guys have sex with these girls aged 14 and under?
when im in my 30s will i be hang around the school gates to pick up my 4 yearold with girls as young as 16

2007-08-01 22:14:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

by the way i lost my virginity at 17 and felt it was way too young after

2007-08-01 22:25:02 · update #1

14 answers

Children don't usually feel the *need* for sex, because they don't know what sex is and they don't understand it.

What they feel the need for is affection and attention, and older people use that need, plus the ignorance of the children, to convince children to have sex with them for their own purposes of gratification.

This is called paedophilia, and is a VERYserious and dreadful form of child abuse. Such behaviour is also illegal, because it is a form of rape and because it can damage the child's development into adulthood, mentally and physically.

If you have actual knowledge of a 16 years or older person who is having sex with an 11 year old child, or with girls 14 years and under, you MUST tell the police (an anonymous telephone call would be enough), because if you don't you are withholding evidence of a crime.

Paedophiles are loathed by anyone who cares about children, because adults should only have sex with people who are able to give informed consent (look it up).

Adult people, can control our behaviour regarding sex, we are NOT compelled to act on your first impulse, can say no and can decide NOT to abuse others.

It's up to all of us to educate and inform ourselves about these issues.

Cheers :-)

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Edited following email from Asker, explaining part of the question to me. Thanks!

2007-08-01 22:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1 0

Ok I dont think it is always the parents fault i think its also the kids fault. The reason I say this is cause my sister l;ost her virginity at like 15 years old and she is now 19 years old and I have not lost my virginity yet and am actually not planning to for a while and im 17. I think it depnds on the kid. I honestly dont know why kids have sex at such a young age i think its peer pressure once they hear their friends are having sex they feel the need to do it. I also think it has to do with what they know about sex. The only difference is it oly works on some children the reason why i say this is cause some kids know what will happen but still do it but some once they know about it and are more aware of it that means they wont be so curious. I hope this helps.

2007-08-02 05:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by angel 3 · 0 0

There's so much happening around. I would get mad if I start investigating the reasons behind everything.

It is difficult to answer or find reasons for everybody's behavior. It happens with everyone when they are preteens or teens. They like someone and are on the roll.

With age we get matured and understand life better like you understand now at 18.

You have an understanding of 18 years of life when you look back at all these children.

2007-08-02 05:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0 0

That is so sad. I didn't realize kids that young were having or wanting to have sex. That never even crossed my mind when I was that age. I guess guys will have sex with anyone willing so that may help. Grown men on Dateline are way to excited when it comes to meeting girls young enough to be their little daughters or even grand daughters. Sick, sick, sick. Maybe these girls' parents are not doing their job, who knows?

2007-08-02 05:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by marie s 4 · 0 0

Because society is pressurizing them to be adults at a very early age. Girls of 10 without so much as a protruding nipple being pressured into wearing "bras" which aren't really bras at all, for example.

2007-08-02 05:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0 0

peer presure the kids want to be like teen agers and teen agers are giving bad impressions to the little kids ok i am 16 but i don't really act like most teen agers so i know that all kids starting at 9 years old they do whatever teen agers do thats like all i know i don't know the answer to the other questions though sorry

2007-08-02 05:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because they need to know what is the meaning of SEX...
We are human so we need to face this problem...
What important is...We must love urself, never easy doing sex or make love with others unless after married...

2007-08-02 05:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0 0

A wise man once said "go be unique and original, just like everybody else..." Influence is a very powerful tool, especially if its negative. 'Cause then its forbbiten, which makes it even more tempting.

But mostly, kids want validation. It takes a zillion "good kid!" to whipe out one "you idiot!"

2007-08-02 05:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by dearestm64 3 · 1 0

bad influences and rolemodels.

look at the celebrities kids look up to these days; lindsay lohan, britney spears, paris hilton, etc.

that with bad parenting, cable tv, songs about sex, peer pressure, etc.

2007-08-02 05:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by JIGGLY 4 · 0 0

They say they need love and say they're in love, but they're not, its just something they say cuz they think they have to...its very American, kids here in Ireland never talk like that

2007-08-02 05:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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