What is Love?! Does it make us more or less selfish?!?

Question

Should love for parents, children, friends, partners be different?! Or is it a deeper feeling that has the same equivalence when true...?!

Answer 1

Starting to get there! Amen someone proving you can figure it for yourself! Ether way love is an emotion whose job it is (as all emotions do such as anger, sadness, etc) to exctie feelings and actions both physically and mentally. Now what all that means is that love is actually really, trully, the act of feeling. Its that simple, so it as itself, isn't any different then seeing a bug and saying wow that looks cool. See your feeling for that bug therefor loving it, strange huh. Now if you just crused it and went on with your day with out feeling anything,well thats hate. Ether way what divides our relationships and paints these different spectrums of love is how we use it, how we feel with it. We don't FEEL the same things for our parents as we would for are kiddos. We don't feel the same thing for our friend Bob as we do for our friend Timmy because well THERE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE! See every Individual envovled in a relationship paint it its own unique shade of feelings, its own type of love really. So thats really what confuses people is they expect this one type of super special one-in-a-million dark stranger to come by and give them happiness. And they well know love, when in fact there isn't a person in the world who would FEEL insecure, scared, and unworthy of such a happening. If they do there arrogant anyways and not much of a charater. So in the end the Love isn't the magical part, its the feelings it give us. Now weather its selfish or selfless comes down to the purpose of the relationship. Use to be people got married to have a family and make a name. Nowadays people get married so they have someone to screw and there not alone, yet it is still love. So as you can see love is a simple thing, what we do with, can do with it, now thats the complicated thing.... colorful world too! No black and white, which makes it so hard to know whats the right way.....