Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

my dad accusing my mom of cheating on him 5 yrs ago. He has been building up some supporting facts about his accusation. No proofs though. He made a whole list and showed it to me. At first I thought it was stupid but then I started to pay attention to my moms responses&reactions. It's the smallest things she does that gives me doubt about her. My dad doesn't have any proof so the only thing he can come up with to proove his side is a lie detector test. Yes, it's not accurate but what else is there? When my dad told her about the lie detector test, she said no because she doesn't have to proove herself. But after she found out that it's not accurate, she said yes. My mom is upset at me because I don't believe her. I told her I don't believe her or my dad because that's like taking sides. She thinks I favor my dad more. They need marriage counseling but my mom is good at talking/dramatic can get herself out of anything and my dad is traditional person who doesn't believe in counseling.

2007-07-29 16:01:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with my friend for about 3 years now and i feel we are so close that i would even consider her my best friend but i know i`m not her best friend and that was o.k. until recently see i told her 4 months ago that i was going on vacation to the beach and i really wanted to her to come for the day so we could spend the day together since i haven`t seen her for atleast the whole summer. I even went out of my way to mapquest it for her so that she couldn`t use the excuse that she didn`t know how to get there anyways it turns out that she didn`t come and frankly i`m pissed, i feel like everytime i ask her to do something with me she always has an excuse but she will always hangout with other people. the werid thing thou is that she really great when it comes to emotional support sooo what should i do? i`m really upset at her because she knew how important this was to me and she still didn`t come so should i yell at her or let it go?

2007-07-29 16:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a 17 year old and this 14 year old boy from my church likes me ALOT. He's liked me since he was 12, but i REALLY would never date him then. Even though i'm 17, i'm about to start college and he is a freshman in high school. i know this makes it EVEN worse.
I like him as a friend, but sometimes i wonder if he thinks it's more. So, i need some help.
1. Should i even consider dating him?
2. IF not, how do i let him down easy?

2007-07-29 16:01:29 · 15 answers · asked by laangel464 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, My Ex boyfriend and i have a 5 year old together. Last year we went through a custody battle. Now in the state of arizona i automatically had custody prior to the courts ruling that because we were never married. He has known for the last 3 years of my intention to move to Oklahoma with my now Fiance'. Even during the court trial he stated that he was fine with me moving to oklahoma. Now all of a sudden today i told him my move was imminent. As required by arizona state law i gave him 60 days notice. Now he thinks he all of a sudden has a problem with me leaving the state even though he told the judge that he had no problems with it. Now since i have soul custody can he actually appeal my move and keep me from leaving? As i would not actually be interferring in his custody only his visitation which i will gladly work out with him before the move and have it on file at the courts. The A.R.S. did not state weather his appeal could only apply to joint custody scenario's so......

2007-07-29 15:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Sebring6969 2 in Family

I think it is incredibly rude not to RSVP. Especially when you are provided with a postage paid envelope... even if you are NOT going, just send in the darn card! It will take about ten seconds out of your life to write "0" or whatever on the card and put it in your mailbox and let your mail man pick it up.

I receive less than HALF of my responses back. They were due Saturday. I am hoping that many of them will show up in the next couple days, but sheesh! A (rude) part of me wants to do assigned seating. If you didn't respond, then you don't have a seat! Sorry!

It's one thing to allow for a handful of non-responses, but over half the guest list!?!?

Now we have to get a group of people together to start making phone calls!

2007-07-29 15:58:55 · 19 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

i have been with my girlfriend for about a month now. we have seen eachother everyday sence we first started dating. this last week we have talked about how we arnt gonna be able to see eachother for about a week or two due to work and college. its only been 6 hours sence i seen her and i already miss her. i dont know how she feels right now but she expressed how she is certain she is gonna miss me too. we within the last hour i was at her house and last hour i will get to see her a guy calls and talks to her. the guy is obviously into her. well she told him that they can hang out this weekend coming for sure. the phone call lasted about a half hour and she sounded very excited and happy to talk to the guy. i have a weird feeling that maybe i cant trust her or him. she is an extreme flirt. after the call she came over to me ( currently watching the movie we were supposed to be watching together) and asked me what was wrong. i replied " nothing" then i felt a huge distance between us.

2007-07-29 15:54:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 15:53:08 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like I said me and my husband have been seperated for a long time because of addictions, he is clean of drugs but still has to start drinking the minute he gets up.He wants us back together but I'm scared that if he is still drinking the way he is that he'll go back to the drugs.He wants my help to stop drinking but I know that I can not help him,I've tried so many times.I love him and would never want anything bad to happen to him.I guess my question is,am I wrong for not wanting to jump back into it or should I let him back into my life and keep trying to help him. I am very confused.

2007-07-29 15:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by sunzx2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My older brother just brought me home like 10 pounds of my favorite candy! and its expensive too! its like those gold wraper, ball shapped candies. i forget what they are called but they are good! and he brought it home becasue he said he though of me today at work?

kinda random but who cares?! who knew the tough football player of a bro had a heart! isn't that sweet?!

2007-07-29 15:51:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it normal to think about girls all the time and not only girls in clothes but in underwear is it normal im 13 years old plese dont say bad things i just wana know if anyone else thinks is normal

2007-07-29 15:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by Human No.2543324757 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 this year, in love with 48/49 years old china national lady, i met her by my father as a step moms to me, but recent years, i develop a love in her & wanting her to be my lover, if can, wife to be, should i continue with her? can this relationship works? pls help me, thanks.

2007-07-29 15:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...Im 15...i had a banquet for band...an ex was there...He didnt rape me but he touched me....And i dont know how to quit worrying...Everyone,all my friends were there.and no1 saw or did nething...We danced,And he kissed me on my chest and i had to try rele hard to get him away and off me....And i walk ed over so he could apologize and he pulled me back towardds him and i couldnt get up......It all was ****** up but i wasnt scared until i walked over to help find his sister's song,she walked away tho and left us...He put his hand on my leg...and slid it up...I froze up.... everyone was right there....I feel like this is all my fault....Im finally ready to speak up but dont know how...It seems so dumb....PLease Help Me In anyway you Know............

2007-07-29 15:49:07 · 13 answers · asked by Angel Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

we didnt have sex before we go married but 1 or 2 times and of course we did on our honeymoon and i know that i dont have a problem in that area but i dont know what to do i is really starting to hurt my feelings??? help someone tell me what i should say, do, or how to act??

2007-07-29 15:45:38 · 18 answers · asked by hozer101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a divorced dad who has my son 50% of the time.He has a closet full of toys(never playes with)new bike(never riden)movies(never watched).He can play his gameboy for hrs but has a hard time watching a movie(kids) from start to finish.Except for these 3 things he has a hard time entertaining himself.When board he climbes,jumps ect all over me to get my attention.I do take him out(parks,walks ect) and spend a great deal of time playing with him(as does him mom) but can't play 100% of the time.Hes like this with his mom too but seems more "needy" with me.

2007-07-29 15:42:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-29 15:40:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't even have a dad to walk down the aisle with, & my brothers hate me. I don't even have anybody to have any bridesmaids. I have only 1 friend who could be the Maid of Honor.

Is there any way I can have a private wedding with the priest marrying me & my husband, & I just have a big reception?

2007-07-29 15:39:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

there would be no intentions of going further than a one night stand. It is only a game of truth or dare between cow-workers!

2007-07-29 15:38:58 · 17 answers · asked by dazzlingnessa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do two lovers who live 4 miles from each other escape there homes and run away from everything

2007-07-29 15:38:24 · 4 answers · asked by DustMonkey 3 in Singles & Dating

im hung up over my ex, i know i wont get her back until i change and until she starts missing me again, listen to the song Sick Puppies- It's all the same, and you'll understand what im talking about. So, should I smoke up to forget about it for a while and just go to sleep?

2007-07-29 15:38:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

nothing crazy just to get a guy intrested in dating you. and besides the obvious: physical.

2007-07-29 15:36:11 · 11 answers · asked by austin(: 2 in Singles & Dating

I have found the women who is my true love... weve had some problems and she said she needed some space so i said i would wait for her.... i have been waiting for a very long time for her to come back to my door. . . I have never been more sure of anything in my life that she is my true love... i would wait for as long as it takes... even if it means waiting my whole life.... my question is would you consider it a waste of my life to wait for that one person to come back... i have had many arguments with friends/family about it... i don't think it is because my faith and hop have me beleiving she will come back one day... thank you for your help

2007-07-29 15:35:46 · 37 answers · asked by J.S 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know anything about weddings, & I'm 23 yrs. old. I feel embarrassed. I only went to 1 wedding in my life, & I feel ashamed to not know what goes on during weddings. Basically, I don't know anything about weddings.

2007-07-29 15:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do u live in knox or starke county in indiana or fort collins colorado and r u 14 cuz i am and my gf just broke up wit me

2007-07-29 15:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 15:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by danielle 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a Christian, and I would like to find a nice Christian girl to settle down with.

I asked a question about an appropriate way to find out if a girl saves herself for marriage.

I recieved several answers that say i am judgemental. I do not feel this is accurate. I can be friends with everybody, but I see potential marriage candidates would have to have the same values as mine ( i am waiting for marriage).

People say God doesn't judge, so I have no reason to. Wouldn't i be more dishonest pretending it didn't affect my feelings? I don't want to hurt anybody. But i mean, we marry people we are totally at peace with, right?

To me the subject is a big red flag. I don't think i am being judgemental, so much as it being a fact that i know this person doesn't share my values.

What do you think?

2007-07-29 15:33:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

No one ever gets along, & they don't even have family reunions.

2007-07-29 15:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-29 15:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wel everything was fine until he asked what I was thinking and I said "stuff" then he said "what stuff?" and I just said "stuff" and I wouldn't tell him, after that he said he had to go and left.

D=

I was instant messaging him by the way!

I couldn't tell him because I was thinking of him..

2007-07-29 15:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I girl I knew from college a while back found me on Facebook.. we only met once during college.. well she messages me all week about wanting to hang out this past weekend. She then says she can't she has stuff to do. Well she messages me again with her phone number and tells me to "call her any time" and she would love for me to call... She gave me her # on friday, I was out of town all weekend so I could not call sooner.. I did ask her if it was alright I'd call, she said yes and she would like that

Well I call her tonight, no answer, so I leave a voice mail. I go online and she is online on Facebook..

What the heck is up with that??? What do I do now?

2007-07-29 15:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 16, love to read comic books, love metaphysics, rock, Evanescence, Buffy the Vamire Slayer. Wanna e-mail. I'm bored, we could talk or whatever. I'm hungry too, wonder whats in the fridge?

2007-07-29 15:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends