What do you think...?

Question

So I girl I knew from college a while back found me on Facebook.. we only met once during college.. well she messages me all week about wanting to hang out this past weekend. She then says she can't she has stuff to do. Well she messages me again with her phone number and tells me to "call her any time" and she would love for me to call... She gave me her # on friday, I was out of town all weekend so I could not call sooner.. I did ask her if it was alright I'd call, she said yes and she would like that

Well I call her tonight, no answer, so I leave a voice mail. I go online and she is online on Facebook..

What the heck is up with that??? What do I do now?

Answer 1

She's a player honey.....sounds like she's just messing with your head.

Answer 2

Um, this really does not sound promising to me. I think you should just leave her a message on facebook and tell her, its nice she wants to get to know you and all. But you don't really have the time to hang out these days, due to work and stuff like that. And the reason you would be saying that is because, for one you really don't know this chick from adam. I mean meeting someone once does not instantlly qualify her as someone of great importance. I would also be very suspicious about someone that is hounding and begging to hang out with them and even giving you their number after one meeting. Something just doesn't sound right with this chick. Even more so, she is playing some game. And if you don't want to get caught up in the craziness, best to drop her for sure.

Answer 3

Man, tell this girl that youre not 18 anymore and that playing "games" or "hard to get" doesnt appeal to you anymore. Email her and say dont tell me to call and message me with all this stuff unless you mean it. Tell her thats its not cool to mess with somones head and then say, Im way too good for you,and good luck to the man you end up with. You can do so much better obviously,and these types of people just love chaos and love to hurt people. Find someone that really is interested in you, it sounds like that wont be too hard for ya, you sound like a good guy, find a woman as good as you. good luck

Answer 4

You wait to see if she calls you back.
Don't go chasing her, let her chase after you some too.
If you left a message then just let her make the next move.
If you didn't leave a message then either say something to her on FaceBook about you tried to call her, or leave her a message next time you call and then don't call any more.

Good luck

Answer 5

I don't get what you are upset about (or why you are posting this here). Its quite possible that her phone was off or missed the call. Chill out. You sound a bit tense and controlling. That does not make for a good or fun relationship.

Answer 6

You met her once so you really don't know her very well. I would just leave it alone. If she is this hard to get in touch with it makes me wonder how many other guys she is after.

There are a lot of other great women out there. I wouldn't count on this one.

Good luck.

Answer 7

If you left her a message, wait for her next move. Then ask her about it then, its better to get it from the horses mouth, its a 50/50 chance it will be the truth.

Answer 8

Sounds like she is just trying to find someone any one to fool around with, or she just wants to meet up with old college people for the fun of it....i'd move on and let her call you.

Answer 9

Sounds like she is either playing a game on your head, or you two have really just been missing each others tries at communication.

Answer 10

This is one busy chica, she is trolling and will take whatever she can catch. If you want to be part of the swill in the net, go for it. Be careful.