I have been friends with my friend for about 3 years now and i feel we are so close that i would even consider her my best friend but i know i`m not her best friend and that was o.k. until recently see i told her 4 months ago that i was going on vacation to the beach and i really wanted to her to come for the day so we could spend the day together since i haven`t seen her for atleast the whole summer. I even went out of my way to mapquest it for her so that she couldn`t use the excuse that she didn`t know how to get there anyways it turns out that she didn`t come and frankly i`m pissed, i feel like everytime i ask her to do something with me she always has an excuse but she will always hangout with other people. the werid thing thou is that she really great when it comes to emotional support sooo what should i do? i`m really upset at her because she knew how important this was to me and she still didn`t come so should i yell at her or let it go?
2007-07-29 16:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you wanna yell at her but at the same time you dont wanna over react. atleast thats the way i would feel. just stop inviting her places and dont call her for a while and she will eventually realize your upset. or just straight up tell her look im upset with you.
2007-07-29 16:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a famous saying;
"If you love something let it go. If it returns to you it's yours. If it doesn't it never was."
2007-08-04 17:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by saved_astronaut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go and find new friends she doesn't really seem to care about you and that is what it shows.
2007-08-06 15:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest or you can deal with it and move on...
2007-08-05 19:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋