i am 22 this year, in love with 48/49 years old china national lady, i met her by my father as a step moms to me, but recent years, i develop a love in her & wanting her to be my lover, if can, wife to be, should i continue with her? can this relationship works? pls help me, thanks.
2007-07-29 15:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop doing her.
2007-07-29 17:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cristian Ballack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough and hopefully mature enough to make this decision for yourself, but I would be careful. There is still a great age difference between the two of you, she is old enough to be your mother. As long as you are both honest and the communication is open about the differences you have together, I suppose that there is a possibility that it may work but it just seems that the two of you could only have so much in common. Marriage is an even bigger step. If I were you, I would go VERY slowly in this relationship. Good luck!
2007-07-29 23:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are definitely going to be some logistical problems to be sure, but if your commitment is strong and mutual then you have as good a chance at succeeding as anyone does. Sometimes the more difficult the challenge is the more supernatural our efforts to rise to the occassion are likely to be. Good luck to you.
2007-07-29 22:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highly unlikely;y, Kenji. The age difference is only the start of the incompatibility. Forget it, Go out and get a friend nearer your own age.
2007-07-29 22:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you foreseen lots of obstacle in front ? try not to make your life too complicated.i admire your courage .10 years later you will have different thinking then how about the lady ? by then you are at your golden age but she is getting old.if you abandon her then it ill be too cruel for her.
if the love strong and solid enough between you, god bless you !
2007-08-02 02:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by yty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i could only shout NO NO and more NO!!!!!
get away from her....start a life for yourself dude ...youre 22 for godsakes!!!
Go find another older woman to satisfy this problem.... seriously not a healthy idea to continue this.
2007-07-29 22:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Danimal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. You are a consenting adult. If she wants a relationship with you, go for it! She might teach you something new!
2007-07-29 22:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋