Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

My husband had a daughter as teenager. They were both very young and could not provide for themselves so they moved to another state in order to be closer to the girlfriend's parents. They lived with one of the girlfriends siblings. Later, the sibling got evicted and all got thrown out on street. His girlfriend moved back with her parents but they didn't let my husb stay. My husb needed a surgery immediately & his dad asked him to come home. My husb's girlfirend at the time,took that as offense. She met someone else meantime who she married later on. my husband had good intentions but he never saw his daughter. He didn't have the finances back then and the little money he had, he was paying child support. Ex pushed him in a corner and made him sign papers for his daughter to be adopted by her husband. I met my hubby after all was set & done. I help him track down his ex. We contacted her saying he wants to meet his daughter. Ex said she is not sure what to do. The daught is 17. Help!

2007-07-29 16:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Donna M 4 in Family

please give me some ideas?for my wedding

2007-07-29 16:47:23 · 44 answers · asked by swthrt474 3 in Weddings

I don't have a boyfriend, I'm 15 and have been told that I'm too cute to not have one. I've been told I am beautiful, hot, pretty, all those things a girl wants to hear. I've tried with guys and would like to have a boyfriend. Yet I'm left single, why is that?

2007-07-29 16:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 16:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any guys that actually like a girl for who she is, and don't always think of her in a sexual way??

2007-07-29 16:42:17 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mkay, so you ask a question and get answers, maybe 50% give you good answers, the other 50% say pretty much WHAT you asked in the question..
And then you ask a question with a general curiosity and people convince themselves you're actually talking about yourself, not someone else, and act like you are an idiot?
Im not complaining, i've had plenty of great answers, just respect is so low, and people are answering questions to get "2 points, thanks" .. Points wont do anything for you..
I've been here to see the changes.
Right now i know, if people answer, there will be PLENTY of what i just wrote about.
You dont have to answer, i'm just letting you all know :)
Where's honest, informative, respectful answers gone? ♥

2007-07-29 16:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by Clarity. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to love a girl and she broke my heart alot, so I stopped with her and met her best friend. After me and her best friend met, we quickly were infatuated with each other and eventually fell in love. Is it wrong to date my ex's best friend?

2007-07-29 16:35:17 · 10 answers · asked by Slash G 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been really good friends w/ this guy for about five years. We were always "just friends" until this year when we went out for a few months. It ended w/ me breaking up w/ him then later me wanting him back and him saying no cuz he "doesn't think of me that way anymore". Anyway, our friendship went back to normal pretty much until about a week ago when we started talking on the phone about sex. It was really detailed and very personal (like we kept talking about our sex dreams we had about each other and stuff...detailed images ya kno. stuff that got us both really horny) and he soon asked if I wanted to have phone sex w/ him. I said I was too tired at the moment and maybe a different time. But I really was just wondering about it. Cuz he rejected ME after I broke up w/ him. Told me that he doesn't think about me in that way anymore and he probably never will. He STILL doesn't want to get back together w/ me. But he wants phone sex. What gives here?

2007-07-29 16:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this seems awkward and wierd but

I am 13 with a 5inch thing... below if you know what im saying

is that small or big for my age so many people lie about it these days I am not sure

2007-07-29 16:32:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what's the worse she can expect as a reaction?...

2007-07-29 16:32:00 · 9 answers · asked by Teri 1 in Singles & Dating

My younger sister that is almost 20, met this guy and started meeting up with him and talking to him on the phone, they where kinda in a relationship. I didn't know about it until they split up for some reason.

They had a big argument, didn't want her to get back together with him. They saw each other on the weekend, spent a few hours together at a club.

Found out that he smokes, drinks, gambles. Also heard a rumor that he did drugs.

Would you allow her do date this guy - or try to break them up?
My parents do not know that she was kind of seeing someone. So I am not sure what to do.

2007-07-29 16:28:38 · 20 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this girl who i have been crushing on for at least a year.
We have been very close latley
We have talked on the phone for about an hour each night, and i then i just got amessage on saying this:
"you want me!

"just ask for it baby, and you'll get it!!"

hahhhahahahaalolhahajkhahahaha

[but seriously]"

What could this mean?
is she serious, kidding, or what?

2007-07-29 16:27:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband left my house a couple of days ago to get drunk n party with his brothers, he has done it to me many times i got fed up and so i broke up with him after all he is a drunk. we have 2 boys 1 and the other is only 7 months, how can i overcome this i have no friends n my family just throws things in my face telling me i told you so,
would it take a long time anyone with experince...

2007-07-29 16:26:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've kissed alot of ladies, and for some reason I was wondering why some can make out... but not use there tongue? I hate it, but there has to be a reason behind it.

2007-07-29 16:25:15 · 8 answers · asked by teddyrockstar 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a long distance relationship with this guy for four months, and i love him alot. I thought he loved me too, as he would never stop telling me so.

last night he texted me dumping me, because apparantly he's suddenly finding long distance too much effort. I was really cut, as he'd been acting strange for two weeks (ignoring me, not replying to my texts and emails and calls, and not even wishing me luck for my solo during a musical last week, etc), and though I was sort of expecting the dumping, it was still horrible. Please don't say that we couldn't have loved each other because of the distance, because trust me, it's very possible. I'm just wondering whether he really is finding it too much effort (after all, he never used to. he's very good at being sweet, in fact, and always made time for me) or whether he's just found a girl close to him and he wants her instead.

What do you think, how can I tell, and how can i ever continue this as a friendship? im really really hurt..

2007-07-29 16:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Maybe 2 in Singles & Dating

i have no desire. i haven't dated in 2 years and have no intention of doing so. i am the only one in my circle of friends who isnt married or in a serious relationship. i just want some opinions on if this is unusual or not.

2007-07-29 16:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my partner (we're not legally married) for almost 10 years. I have a 12 year old daughter from a prior relationship and he is VERY critical of her. Over the yrs, I have heard 1000 promises that he'll "do better." He never follows thru and seems to delight in seeing her cry. 5 years ago he cheated on me...I agreed to forgive if he would FINALLY begin to act like a dad to her. (I am an AWESOME step-mom to HIS 10 yr. old child). I found myself pregnant (oops) and had a beautiful baby boy 2 1/2 yrs ago...and now also have an 8 month old boy...filling my own emptiness probably...it definately wasn't a "love" based decision...but I will NOT regret my boys!

My dilema is this...he STILL treats my daughter horribly, yet DOTES on his sons. I am filled with disgust...and feel sooo trapped. He and I do nothing together-he works ALL the time or is sleeping. I feel like I'd be a horrible mom to rob my 2 yr old of seeing him daily- and yet my daughter is sooo unhappy. So am I....

2007-07-29 16:20:47 · 19 answers · asked by jaymie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

which do you prefer and why?

2007-07-29 16:18:53 · 52 answers · asked by roadrunner_13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 16:18:28 · 20 answers · asked by Clementine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if u were to have a perfect first date what would it be like?

2007-07-29 16:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by Emmy 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy at school that i REALLY like and we're good friends and i can't tell if he likes me or not all of my friends think that he does and i can't decide if i schould tell him or not because i don't want to make our friendship oquared. Please Help

2007-07-29 16:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's so much fun huh??? ya... just love to play mind games, sick world we live in huh?

Tell me the best head game you ever played to win over a Guy, or Gal...

2007-07-29 16:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Q&A 2 in Singles & Dating

is constantly calling her to see where she is and what she's doing. If she doesn't answer her cell phone, he'll call her house late and night multiple times to ask if she's home yet even when she's told him that she doesn't want him doing that and that her parents find it annoying, but he can't seem to get that through his head. He's even found my number and phoned my house to ask where she is. I don't know but he seems kinda controlling or needy, I'm not sure what the word to use is. But another thing is that when she tells him that she can't do anything on her days off with him, he gets really upset, and tells her that she crushed his hopes :S.. And the last thing is that she told him the other day that she couldn't do anything with him the next day and he called her a "f**cking b*it*ch" and then said "i hate u" over MSN, and I was with her at the time she recieved that and she was completely shocked. I had no idea what 2 tell her except that she definatly didn't deserve 2 hear that

2007-07-29 16:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by melloyellow 1 in Singles & Dating

gained access to your emails and was reading them?
( Total invasion of privacy. )

2007-07-29 16:11:26 · 37 answers · asked by jaswinelover1 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16yrs old and never had a girlfriend. The other day, a lady who is a family friend who is I think 34 or 35 years old said she "wanted to have her wicked way with me".
I go to church and do not want any wicked things to happen. What does she mean?

2007-07-29 16:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 16:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by danielle 3 in Singles & Dating

internet, phone, public announcement, etc.

what else?

2007-07-29 16:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by kathie 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years openly admitted to me that he he wants to fool around with other women. I was his first so he feels sexually unsatisfied....

he told me he doesn't want to miss out on having "fun" in his 20's. he says he regrets getting serious so early in life & that he wants to enjoy the "single life" but still keep me as his wifey..

I would personally let him do anything that makes him happy. i understand how men are. but I am afraid of getting to hurt if he enjoys sex more with other women.

What should I do?

2007-07-29 16:05:38 · 84 answers · asked by lil muffin ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

What I mean is, she is mixed up with a really bad guy, he is into drugs and they got an apartment. Should I go over there and bring her to my house and try to talk some sense into her. Is it even worth trying? She is only 21, our parents are dead.

2007-07-29 16:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by don't hate snowflake 3 in Family

We have been dating for two months he's really good to me we talk every week and have been on two dates so far. I want him to feel comfortable talking to me.

2007-07-29 16:04:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Singles & Dating