theres this guy at school that i REALLY like and we're good friends and i can't tell if he likes me or not all of my friends think that he does and i can't decide if i schould tell him or not because i don't want to make our friendship oquared. Please Help
2007-07-29 16:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should probably tell him, but in private and just the two of you so if he doesn't then it will only be a little awkward with you and not for that long
2007-07-29 16:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we can scare someone away by talking about it directly. Just be there, be fun, give him the eye, give him compliments (not too many, and be sincere),
and stay a little mysterious. If you get to the point where you do get closer, as Cher sings in her song, "It's in his kiss."
Guys will say all kinds of things and go to 2nd, 3rd, and home run with many people, but to know if he really loves you, it's in his kiss. But if you talk nervously about kissing before laying one on him, or act like he's the center of your world, you'll scare him away, unless you are the homecoming queen of all queens.
2007-07-29 23:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by topink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can risk your friendship over this matter, you should go ahead and ask him how he feels about you. I would suggest you to spend more time with him and when he's ready he will tell you how he feels about you. Patience is a virtue.
2007-07-29 23:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by scar04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only get awkward if u make it that way. u can tell him, its probably what he wants to hear. if its not what he wants u can just forget it and move on. it shouldnt be awkward at all if u guys are good friends.
2007-07-29 23:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Unh Noane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am a guy and my gf acted the same way, did not no if i liked her she once texted me and asked if i had any affection towards her, i replied yes do you? and now were going out try it. Worked for me!
2007-07-29 23:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by My Good times 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him because he might like u and just think that u don't like him so he doesn't tell u and if u don't tell him then u'll never know if he likes you
broken hearts are often caused by unspoken words
2007-07-29 23:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would tell him also make it clear to him that if he dont like you that u dont want yalls friendship to change in anyway good luck
2007-07-29 23:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way to find out is if you changed ur appearance like ur hairstyle. if he liked u he would immediately notice and compliment it and start paying attention to u. i know i would do it. it worked for me. i changed my hairstyle and the girls started flocking. i think this changing appearance thing might work for girls. good luck
2007-07-29 23:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋