What would you do if you found out your bf.......?

Question

gained access to your emails and was reading them?
( Total invasion of privacy. )

Answer 1

Flush him quicker than a Sunday Morning turd

Answer 2

I would confront him about it first to see what reason he would have for doing that. Then I would honestly break up with him. In a situation like this it does not warrant really trying to work things out. Because evidently something in his mind told him that it was ok to be looking around in my personal emails, so that translates to me that he did not trust me enough to come to me about his concerns. So in my own logic he has cheated on me, by probably listening to someone else, instead of coming to me first, his girlfriend, and see what the low down was. He betrayed my trust as well to be that low. Don't need a dude around like that, reading and piling up things to try and use against me.

P.S. I would then delete all accounts and get a new one. Because even though I have broken up with the dude, he could still try and read my emails and such. Oh and get a security password thing or something to put on the messenger and other places as well. Because if he can hack into any place, don't want to take my chances.

Answer 3

break up with him defintely. and this is an invasion of privacy so you could probably report him to the website and he would get his account suspended if you wanted. and if you are changing your password which you should, you could do like, a string of letters that mean something to you. or like, a code. but make sure he won't know it!

Answer 4

It could mean he doesn't trust you. He could be thinking that something innocent isn't because he doesn't have all the info. It could also mean he isn't trustworthy himself. It could also mean that he's overly jealous, which is no good for a relationship and disastrous for a marriage. I agree with the other answer, change your password but you do have a problem on your hands. Its a possibility that you can be secretly recorded as well. I'd watch my back if I were you.

Answer 5

If he's that controlling now, just wait until you marry him, and are his "personal private property" That's the kind of men who burn you down at night in your own house like you watch on t.v. because you've been divorced for two months, and you have a guy friend over...and you're still, "his". Don't understimate these SIGNS. These are your fair warning signals. You can choose to overlook it, but you you won't be able to when he had you duct taped in a basement. Just what it looks like from here. SOrry.

Answer 6

I would not really mind because I do not have anything to hide. My boyfriend and me have been dating for 3 years, though, so I feel comfortable with him knowing my personal stuff. If it was with a boyfriend that we were not quite at that level yet, I would probably confront him and tell him that it upset me, but I would not be too quick to dump him. I would let him know that he has no reason not to trust me and go through my personal things.

Answer 7

I would talk to him about how i don't like the invasion of privacy and if he doesn't understand then he's just rude.

Answer 8

Change your password... if he doesn't know that u know about him doing this then he shouldn't get mad if u change your password. And if he knows and tells u he does, or either way... tell him that u feel like he doesn't trust u by going through your stuff. And to have a good relationship u have to have trust.

Answer 9

Make a different email account or change the password, and confront him about it

Answer 10

Set up a hoax email adress and email yourself stuff like you secretly won the lotto or are a spy,just mess with his head.