I don't have a boyfriend, I'm 15 and have been told that I'm too cute to not have one. I've been told I am beautiful, hot, pretty, all those things a girl wants to hear. I've tried with guys and would like to have a boyfriend. Yet I'm left single, why is that?
2007-07-29 16:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never had a boyfriend.
2007-07-29 17:13:06 · update #1
I'm old enough to be your Mom and will sound like an old lady, but it looks like another generation of young ladies are growing up thinking they just have to have a guy.
I am NOT a feminist. I think guys are great and so is having a boyfriend and being in love. It's lonely when everyone else has "somebody" and you don't. But look at how you asked your question . . . "I would like to have a boyfriend." That sounds like "I would like to have a Coke."
I went thru the same thing when I was your age (I know, I know walk two miles uphill each way to school in a blizzard) and when I finally "got" a boyfriend it felt like "this is it?" So I decided it was the boyfriend that was the problem and "got" a different one. Same thing. So I ended that one and went on with my life and had fun and went to college and met tons of cool people had lots of dates and guy friends and one day I woke up and I was in actual real love with a guy and it was great!
I have no doubt that you are beautiful, hot, pretty and all those things, inside and out. This sounds really gross, but the guy you want is the guy who will love and respect you and stay by your side if you're in some type of horrific and disfiguring accident. Hard to find, but definitely worth the wait.
The next time someone tells you that you are too cute to not have a boyfriend, give them a really puzzled look and ask "why do I have to have a boyfriend?" Practice it in the mirror and see how you answer your own question!
It will happen, but not just because you want it now. You'll find someone when you can say "I would like to be in love."
2007-07-29 17:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by MollyUSA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt at the age of 15 you would have any sort of adult love problems. Im unsure of relevence but i recently discovered im a skitzoid (a person who creates a inner world and removes the need to relate to people emotionally outside of that).
There could be a multitude of possiblilities, ranging from your just generally not good with people which you can fix by gaining experience (trial and error somewhat). You may not be emotionally avalible for people (doubtful, since your both female and young).
2007-07-29 23:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. Try asking one of the guys that told you that ur cute in the first place. That should work. Maybe you're not easy enough to get along with. I know guys like it if it's easier(I do anyways). If all else fails, there's me!(Just kidding)
2007-07-29 23:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you letting the guys know that you're interested in them? Guys can get shy with this stuff. If there's a guy you like, you need to let him know that you're interested. Best way to do that is touch him. Hold his hand hug him, whatever. Just start touching guys you like.
2007-07-29 23:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys feel threatened by beautiful girls. Think yourself lucky, you can afford to be choosy. Just have fun and someone will come along when you're least expecting it.
2007-07-30 00:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am consistently amazed at girls who find themselves in your situation. I would bet that there are dozens, maybe hundreds, of boys at your school or in your neighborhood who would give their right arm to go out with you. Ask your friends to ask their brothers to ask their friends if they would like to date you. Pretty soon you'll have a queue of boys at your door and you'll wish you'd never started all this.
2007-07-29 23:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your 15 and some of your body parts are still under develope.
2007-07-29 23:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by spyderedge30 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because YOU SEEM SO CONCEITED.......... no one who thinks that they are too cute to not have a bf, or who cares if you "THINK" your beautfiul, some boys want a real girl, not a fake barbe type, "Oh Look at Me, I'm so pretty" puke gag, vomit, HOW IS YOUR PERSONALITY? YOUR MIND? YOUR HEART? there's more to get a bf than just being cute...
2007-07-29 23:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Tibbs 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just thought id let u know, that first guy is a queer.. if thats really ALL he thinks about, its not worth listening to.
try to talk to one of ur guy friends [if u have one]. it may seem awkward..but it may help u.
2007-07-29 23:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by channelle k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh i don't think its you . maybe its just the guys around are too afraid to ask you . just let it be . be a kidd while you can . trust me . being taken isn't always so fun
2007-07-29 23:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by xkinkyx69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋