I had a long distance relationship with this guy for four months, and i love him alot. I thought he loved me too, as he would never stop telling me so.
last night he texted me dumping me, because apparantly he's suddenly finding long distance too much effort. I was really cut, as he'd been acting strange for two weeks (ignoring me, not replying to my texts and emails and calls, and not even wishing me luck for my solo during a musical last week, etc), and though I was sort of expecting the dumping, it was still horrible. Please don't say that we couldn't have loved each other because of the distance, because trust me, it's very possible. I'm just wondering whether he really is finding it too much effort (after all, he never used to. he's very good at being sweet, in fact, and always made time for me) or whether he's just found a girl close to him and he wants her instead.
What do you think, how can I tell, and how can i ever continue this as a friendship? im really really hurt..
2007-07-29 16:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Maybe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a long distance relationship for almost 2 years. I loved him and still do. So I can agree with you on the possiblity of it all.
I think in your case he found it too difficult to handle the distance. And that breaking up with you would be an easier way out of it, a clean break so to speak. I'm sure he felt that this way would be easier for you, rather than say a couple more or so months into it. And if a situation would occur with him and a girl he wouldn't want to hurt you.
I still have a very close relationship with my ex, and I'm glad I still have him in my life. So you should try talking to him about it, because if you love him and he loves you, its worth having a friendship over. And its not as hard as you might think it is =]
2007-07-29 16:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like maybe he's found someone else, and is just using the distance as an excuse to get out of the relationship with you. i could be wrong, of course, but it sounds like something happened and he wants out. it sucks, but that's how things go sometimes. good luck.
2007-07-29 23:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by id 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you can fall in love long distance -- i have and so has my lady --- it is not too much trouble to maintain contact --- i dont know that he has found someone else -- i would suggest he is not very committed to making th relationship work --- perhaps it would be better to forget him im sorry to say ---- best wishes
2007-07-29 23:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry 4u u should jus move on and find someone klose dat is sad
2007-07-29 23:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by blasphemous Bible 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋