What I mean is, she is mixed up with a really bad guy, he is into drugs and they got an apartment. Should I go over there and bring her to my house and try to talk some sense into her. Is it even worth trying? She is only 21, our parents are dead.
2007-07-29 16:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by don't hate snowflake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is under his influence, and the influence of drugs, she doesn't want to talk to me
2007-07-29 16:10:33 · update #1
If you take her against her will you could be charged with kidnapping. Better to think of another plan than that.
2007-07-29 16:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Has you said your sister is 21 she is an adult there's really not a whole lot you can do except let her know you love her and your there when ever she needs you. Never give up trying to talk some sense into but in the end the decision still has to be hers. good luck
2007-07-29 23:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get her alone somehow and talk to her. I hope you can talk some sense into her somehow.
Can you afford to ask her to go away with you for a few days and maybe you can get through to her that way?
If you cannot get through to her, then leave things on a positive note so that she will always call you when something goes wrong. You don't want her alone on the streets.
I know it is hard without your parents. I will be hoping for the best for you.
2007-07-29 23:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she doesnt want to talk to you , and is happy where she is , there isnt anything much you can do , but be ready to help her if it all goes bad.
You could place an anonymous tip that there was drug activity at her place , and see if the cops find anything that would put the guy away for a while.
2007-07-29 23:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by mark 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't kidnap her.... that has jail written all over it. Go over there and talk to her though and find out why she's in that kind of relationship. Good Luck!
2007-07-29 23:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that this is a very good idea....i no i would do the same thing. it might also help if you "took" her and maybe went somwhere away for a week so that she is not around the guy and so that you can actually have enough time to talk to her and make her realize. hope everything works out well... :)
2007-07-29 23:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
just get the guy out of the apt. and go over to the apt & talk some sense into her. sorry about your parents. RIP.
2007-07-29 23:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by kathie 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why don't you try inviting her over instead? If you just go and grab her she will probably not want to listen to what you have to say. So just invite her over for brunch or something and delicately approach the subject.
2007-07-29 23:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by suz' 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think you should try too. She is your sister and if you know she is going to get into trouble then go for it. I'm sorry about your parents:(
2007-07-29 23:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by sher_sher_light 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ask her to come over and talk to her...
whats the need of kidnapping?
2007-07-29 23:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋