Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

...don't go to my husbands granddaughters first birthday party...


i'm wifey # 2...
our daughter is 16 months old and my husbands son has a 1 year old (the party) the party is today and i'm not real into going, ive only been in the family 4 years. our 4 year old is "special needs" and i just don't feel like fielding all the questions and putting up with all the "awww" looks we will inevitably get...the party is at their church and there will be lots of people there, kinda a 60 people...

or should i suck it up, i reeeeelly don't wanna go, do i hafta?

i told him to take our 16 month old and go...he got snotty and said he'd go alone...

2007-07-29 03:04:17 · 3 answers · asked by Y!A addict NURSE SWEETIEGOAT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when i hear my neighbors having sex? it gets me really turned on, to the point that i just wanna go out and find a random person....which isn't like me at all, i am trying to wait for someone special.

2007-07-29 02:58:42 · 27 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i propose to him or should i wait until he proposes to me?
i really love him.hes 28,i'm 14.

2007-07-29 02:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by koril_dragonic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister, who is much younger than I seems to have no need to have much of a relationship with me. She only calls if she absolutely has to and I have found myself practically begging her to visit. Her husband, who is a very nice person often talks to us more than she does. My husband and daughter tell me not to let her get to me but its hard. Our parents have died and I am the only family she has left. Why does'nt she want to have anything to do with me?

2007-07-29 02:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by chchhart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've gone out with this person a few times. They're quick witted, intelligent & personable - not to mention handsome. Definitely not the GQ model type; however in my eyes they are perfect. Due to our professions & life experiences we are both jaded. He has a small spotlight in the public eye & therefore has shared with me that most of the interest he receives has something to do with his status rather than his off screen person. My interest is sincere yet I'm not quite sure how I prove it. As a side note & I know that this SHOULD NOT matter; however I will just say that while we work together, we are in separate departments & I have more earning potential than he. I say this to avoid any comments regarding me being after monetary things. I just want to get closer to this incredible man & hope that perhaps 2 jaded singles could create a safe relationship together.

2007-07-29 02:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by 343 Remember 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is it more acceptable if a guy cheats..but a woman , no?

2007-07-29 02:52:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its weird
My Grandma is like 4.8 and my grandpa was like 5.0 maybe 5.1 and my tall uncles are like 5,11 and 5,10
and then my Mom is 5.2 and My short unlce is like 5,4 5,5 atthe most can you tell me why 2 of them are tall and my grandparents are short?

2007-07-29 02:48:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My exhusband wants to give me my daugther for ever and never come arround in exchange he will be debt free and never pay childsupport again. And I want to do it, is this legally possible?

2007-07-29 02:48:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I bought her a diamond necklace a year ago, she said that she lost it but she went to the doctor last week and he found the necklace embedded in her neck under her skin. I can't take this anymore.

2007-07-29 02:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the story; my ex who is also my sons mom got remarried not long ago. The guy she remarried has some issues in court that he has got to straighten out, so he went and hired my attorney to represent him. Is that a conflict of interest? I've used him for quite a while now, and he's very good. I really hope that I never have to go back to court with my ex, but you never know. If by chance we do though, I want to use this attorney, but I'm not sure if we have a conflict of interest or not. Can someone give me some info. on this.

2007-07-29 02:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Damn shame aint it?

2007-07-29 02:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by Ma'Quest 1 in Family

My dad is 37 and my mom 41. My mom has suspected my dad of cheating on her and said she always knew. I'm 15 and when she told me when I was younger I didn't believe that someone would do that so I threw all accusations out the window. Until a year ago, when a used condom fell out of my dad's pocket and he got a present from this girl sonya saying that she loved him, i told my mom and she blew it off. She's big and feels ugly, like she has no self-worth. So my half-sister came over and told me that our dad takes her to some ladys house and she thought they had sex that night and she has one yr. old twins. I was shocked. To top the story off, he gave my sis and cousin his phone so they could call their parents and they looked at the txt messages and one text was from a woman. It said, if you cravin some hypnotic n' fellacio then ring me up. I get off at six, meet me. Don't forget. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU! I busted him and he called me an effing liar. I'm so upset! what to do?

2007-07-29 02:43:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-29 02:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by danny g 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and myself have decied to give each other one personal day a week{her idea}. i choose not to use mine but she has used hers, no big deal i know. but when she uses hers she hangs with family and a family friend{male}. the first night they played games and drank ,still no biggy. she did not come home that night, i didn't like that. i started questioning her about the family friend, she didn't like that. the next weekend they plated up at her moms, she asked me to come but after i was there a couple of hours she asked me to leave because she was uncomfortable with me there at the same time with the family friend. we were all getting along i was talking normal with the family friend i don't know why she wanted me to leave. so she and our kids stayed and they stayed all night.

2007-07-29 02:37:13 · 29 answers · asked by mds_45320 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so if you check my previous questions, there was a guy that i was going to ask out and i did. we went to see a movie, and i think he was a little shy, or confused to why i asked him, since his friends were making fun of him on the last day of school and would go back and forth asking us questions. they would come up to me, and ask, "was he flirting with you, were you flirting with him?" and i said maybe, maybe not. i was gonna clear stuff up with him, but the end of school was only an hour because they had to make up time for a bunch of snowdays. i don't know what to do!!!

2007-07-29 02:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by skigrrrrl 3 in Singles & Dating

I said I'd think about it! We've been together almost 4 years and lived together for 2 - if I was going to marry anyone, it would be him, but I hate the idea of marriage - being a "wife", "belonging" to someone. I just think marriage is so outdated and pointless, and I don't want to make it difficult for us to split up if things go wrong. I mean, I don't think we will, at the moment, but then most people think that don't they, then they all get divorced. The idea of so much pointless commitment scares me.

Hey men, what would you think of your girlfriend if she hated the idea of marriage? Would you start looking elsewhere? Guess this is what I'm really worried about.

2007-07-29 02:21:19 · 29 answers · asked by Ama D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today is our 18th wedding anniversary! For those of you who DO understand "happily married", I want to know what brings the two of you happiness, and if the years are just flying by for you as quickly as we have found they are! I couldn't imagine my life with any other man, and we have had a wonderful life so far! Of course, we've experienced the ups and downs which every marriage has, but our love has just grown stronger and deeper, and there's still plenty of fun, laughter, and lust!
Would appreciate happy, positive answers!

2007-07-29 02:13:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lydia 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I was supposed to go dancing with some people but (last minute) friends cancelled and I ended up with ony 1 girl friend and 2 guys from work. On an empty stomach I stupidly got drunk too quickly. THEN my friend started "going at it" with one of the guys. The other took this as his cue to kiss my neck and try to do stuff with me. Mind you, I've drank a little too much so I didn't exactly stop it 100% at first. However he kept trying to do more and more. He tried to touch me and have sex with me but I pulled away and wouldn't let it happen. He managed to touch me a few times got inside, but in seconds I pushed him out. I told the guy I had a boyfriend and that I can't. He listened. Then my boyfriend started calling and I panicked and didn't pick up. He left messages nervous about where I was. At this point i left the house and told the guys to take me home. Telling my boyfriend would DESTROY our relationship even though I stopped things from happening. What to do?

2007-07-29 02:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by lalalady 3 in Singles & Dating

This was Wednesday, he fessed up last night. He said I was right, she was inexperienced and get this "too fat anyway".

2007-07-29 02:10:24 · 1 answers · asked by Girly Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 02:05:42 · 7 answers · asked by oceanprincess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend is seperated from her husband for about 3 months and has no thoughts of going back. She has a friend and wants to start dating.When is it ok to beging going on dates and starting over?

2007-07-29 02:05:31 · 4 answers · asked by badkia78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a twelve year relatioship and she wants to end it how can I fix it someone please help me she dont want to try and fix it instead she wants to give up and I dont want to put our two children thru this I dont know what to do to fix it and she wont help

2007-07-29 02:04:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean when a guy thats a stranger to you acts normal around other girls.he doesnt talk much. when you go near him or when he sees you coming he acts all weird and looks down gets real quiet or darts across the room....we dont talk to each other cause were strangers but we did say hi once or twice ages ago.. i feel awkward around him,,,his friends are looking when i go past and have that look on their face..i ran into him the other day and i just looked away cause i felt uncomfertable,he turned his back...weird..what have i done to this hottie to scare him like that?

and how do i stop being akward around him>what do i do..

2007-07-29 02:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see things on the news and i can hardly watch it anymore...the worst thing i know is when a mother throws her baby in the trash!

2007-07-29 02:00:37 · 4 answers · asked by sister w 1 in Family

We were going to go out tonight, and she bought a dress for the occasion.
We were just ready to go in the car when she asked;
'Do i look Fat in this?'

... I gave her my honest opinion about how she looked in the dress, she's not fat at all, quite skinny (size 10 i think). It was just how the creases on the dress looked on her body.
Any who. She Flipped. Wham... and then all of a sudden she's chucking a tantrum, bringing up things that i've done wrong in our relationship and she kinda hit me.
It was the wrong decision, saying my honest opinion.
Questions;
Should I have lied instead of telling the truth?
How to get me in her good books?

2007-07-29 01:56:39 · 24 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3 in Singles & Dating

in any given situation, but mostly w/ my husband....we have been bumping heads for some time now.

2007-07-29 01:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can a person tell? You could be putting your love into it and the person is cheating on you so then only later you would realise you have not been making love. A perception or reality?

2007-07-29 01:51:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-29 01:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What topics can you talk about in a date online?
I'm 14 by the way.

2007-07-29 01:42:07 · 17 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June and my mum and dad are paying for the reception. We think there is around 25 tables and we want centrepieces on them. I don't want my parents paying a fortune for something that is only going to be there the duration of the party, they say it doesn't matter about the cost but it does to me. Does anyone have any ideas of where I can find cheap table posies or some lovely centrepieces that are fairly cheap. I actually saw some nice table posies in a shop this morning, only around 7 pounds each although that suddenly went up to 10 when I told her it was for my wedding!!! When I look on the internet the cheapest ones I can find are starting for about 20 pounds for a really small one, that's ridiculous!!! Anyway, I'd really appreciate your help. Many thanks.

2007-07-29 01:18:41 · 7 answers · asked by Fudgecake 1 in Weddings