Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

I can never believe that a man can love me. I'm 24 years old & every time a guy expresses his affection to me I either think he's lying, he'll grow out of it later, he's just saying this coz he is hopelessly lonesome now, he's just confused about his feelings, or whatever excuse I can come up with to make myself believe that there is NO WAY a man can love me! Why am I like this & if u were the guy how would u feel if I act like this?

2007-07-29 08:57:39 · 8 answers · asked by giggsmania 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 08:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by psugirlie10 2 in Singles & Dating

i see girls worried about look and loosing weight and being with men ,,,i worry about career and the future ..does this make me boring ,,, i believe i am beautiful i just envy girl who worry about beauty!

2007-07-29 08:57:14 · 1 answers · asked by Silent tear 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to highschool next year and I'm looking forward to it, but I have a question. I'm 15, and I would like a mature, nice, good looking guy to be with, who is also around my age. I have given up older guys, since it got the guy and I into trouble. So I want a nice 16,17 yr.old. but the problem is that I can't seem to find one. It seems like all the guys that like me are like 20 or older, and I do want a guy, not a man because that is illegal. I know I look older but I can't help that. My friend (or so I thought) said that the reason guys around my age don't like me is because I have a pornstar body and that is not attractive to them, it's kind of off putting because they like a more "regular" girl.I don't know what to do. I'm lonely for a guy, and I feel like I will never get one my age because they aren't attracted to my "pornstar" body. Should I just wait until I'm 18 to find a guy? Help!

2007-07-29 08:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend likes to talk to other girls.......some of them i dont know....i really dont like that but he dosent understand that and keeps talking to them....what do i do?

2007-07-29 08:55:16 · 20 answers · asked by Kayla L 1 in Singles & Dating

Need help here. My girlfriend thinks I was talking about someone else. and claims to never have heard this saying. HELP

2007-07-29 08:55:01 · 2 answers · asked by Art in Kentucky 1 in Family

Many years ago when I was with my first husband his best mate had a nightmare girlfriend.You know the type,after I had only known her a week she was calling me in the middle of the night crying down the phone! Also stuff like turning up at my house and not leaving for 12 hrs,talking about nothing but herself and turning every meeting into a counselling session! She just wore me out. When I split with my husband I moved away and didn't give her my number.10 yrs later I am happily remarried with 2 more kids. His best friend brought his new girlfriend round to meet us.Guess who it was!! The same bloody girl! She greeted me like a puppy and was going on about fate and karma and the joy of us being reunited! To make it worse she is now married to my husband's mate and there is no getting away from her.I'm not leaving town again! How do I get away from this woman without causing a major rift! Oh,and I am also godmother to their child so I get hit up for babysitting every week.

2007-07-29 08:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by New Boots. 7 in Friends

I go to an all boy's high school. Most of the guys don't have girlfriends for the simple reason, they don't know many girls there age. With sports and jobs, and then the fact that you don't have any girls at school, makes it difficult to find a girlfriend. I'm a sophmore, does anyone have any ideas where I can meet some nice girls?

2007-07-29 08:50:11 · 6 answers · asked by triath91 3 in Singles & Dating

It's really stupid. A guy can flirt, talk to a girl, even go all the way(as long as he doesn't have a sheet a mile long), and he's still considered a good man to marry. But if a girl even entertains a man's notions(even if she has no intention of getting physical), she's branded as a girl of loose moral character...and the chances of her finding a nice guy to marry are slim. I'm not saying things contrary to this doesn't happen(particularly with ppl going abroad and coming back for marriage...and others consenting because they want better monetary rewards for their kids), but this acceptable norm still prevails. Doesn't society relize that these guys are sleeping with girls? U know, since its wrong to be gay, and going to a prostititute is wrong on so many levels...a guy nees something he can brag about right, so he shacks up with the neibor girl, saying whatever he could to do so....but then she might never get a good suitor, just because of her one little mistake, while the guy

2007-07-29 08:49:51 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or you may get alone but she dont get alone with you...thanks just seeing how many women get alone or not with there mother n laws...thanks... as for me my mother n law never even met me or talk to me but 1 time and shes so rude and mean! plus shes not from america thank you god i love usa lol...

2007-07-29 08:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by mommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

being loved, happiness is a long walk passed trees allowing sunlight to lay on your path, happiness is painting, happiness is when you make someone else happy, especially by mistake, happiness is when someone loves you, happiness is loving them too, happiness is remembering love, and lost love, happiness is a smiling best friend, happiness is usually a surprise, finding a five dollar bill, taking the first bite of an amazing desert, holding someone you love, not being afraid, holding someone tightly, being appreciated, happiness is know your friends are always there, happiness is learning something new, happiness is having a sister, happiness is being looked up to, happiness is peace, happiness is satisfaction, complete contentment in every way, even when life isnt perfect, happiness is thinking deeply, happiness is concentration, happiness is hearing a due I'm sorry, and happiness is being forgiven, happiness is getting into bed when you're so exausted, please continue

2007-07-29 08:42:57 · 9 answers · asked by jme19914fun 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im talking to this hot white guy who is into the d&s lifstyle(dominance &submission).
he says he loves to be controlled and told what to do and that he loves taking orders and he need a girlfriend who he can worship.
he told me that his last girlfriend was his ruler but she begin to get abusive(slapping,punching e.t.c)
he told me that his last girlfriend ordered him to sleep on a hard floor with no sheet...and like the OBEDIENT submissive guy he is he did it.he loves to be at a woman's beck and call 24/7/365.i asked him just to test him...i said to him ..."if i called u at 3 am asking u 2 drive up to ohio from new jersey to see me would you do it and he said yeah cause he love to be obedient.i dont live in ohio though i just ask him that to see what he say.
now this sounds like fun to get involved in something like this but at the same time im not used to being controlling but i wanted to try it....what u guys think...should i try it.....you only live once?

2007-07-29 08:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 08:35:50 · 12 answers · asked by buhbuhlee123 1 in Weddings

I've been "friends with benefits" with this guy for over two months now. But it's been a while since the last time we hooked up, and I saw him on a party. Most of the night we ignored each other, but I wanted to end up with him so badly that I asked my friend to talk to him. She told him that I wanna hook up again, no emotions involved and no strings attached...of course, she told him how I told her that he was awesome in bed. everything went great cuz he made plans for us to meet and hook up next saturday. but I didn't know that cuz I went up to him before talking to my friend. While we were talking,I was standing so close to him, I was a bit drunk, and I just couldn't resist and I kissed him. then I went home, and my friend said that he was a bit angry and said "you women are all the same"... so now I have no idea what to do...it's not like I'm in love or anything, but I just want to have sex with him so much and now I'm afraid that I've ruined everything...please help. any advice?

2007-07-29 08:34:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you find yourself looking at more physically fit people?
do you not mind a little extra?

Please no answers about personality...I know that is important but I think we look at people before we ever learn their personality.

2007-07-29 08:34:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I've been on and off with this guy for a little over 2 years. We got in a huge arguement and didn't talk for almost a month. About a week ago we hung out with some of his friends and one of mine. At the end of the night when I got home he sent me a text that said "It was nice seeing you tonight." The next day he called me to hang out again I'm guessing... but I was busy and I called him back later to say I was gonna be gone for 4 days in Indianapolis for tennis. He didn't contact me the whole time in Indianapolis. Is he interested or what?

2007-07-29 08:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this doesnt make sense
why should he care
we hate each other my broher and i
why does it matter to him
im in love with his best friend
trying to get ovver him
why wont my beother allow me to date any of his friends
???????????

2007-07-29 08:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by Stussy 2 in Singles & Dating

im talking to this hot white guy who is into the d&s lifstyle(dominance &submission).
he says he loves to be controlled and told what to do and that he loves taking orders and he need a girlfriend who he can worship.
he told me that his last girlfriend was his ruler but she begin to get abusive(slapping,punching e.t.c)
he told me that his last girlfriend ordered him to sleep on a hard floor with no sheet...and like the OBEDIENT submissive guy he is he did it.he loves to be at a woman's beck and call 24/7/365.i asked him just to test him...i said to him ..."if i called him at 3 am asking 4 him 2 drive up to ohio from new jersey to see me would you do it and he said yeah cause he love to be obedient.i dont live in ohio though i just ask him that to see what he say.
now this sounds like fun to get involved in something like this but at the same time im not used to being controlling but i wanted to try it....what u guys think...should i try it.....you only live once?

2007-07-29 08:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we work at the same job and i have a suspicion about this guy that works there also.i think he wants to hook up with her if he hasnt already.what can i do about all of this?

2007-07-29 08:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by mcready777 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is having a real problem, she wants her and her bf to break up, but SHE doesn't want to do it, she wants him to break up w/ her, she's been asking me what to do, and I'm clean outta advice....what can I tell her??

2007-07-29 08:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Bean♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

because it sure feels like a breakup.shes moved out of my place,we havent slept together in 3 weeks,and we dont even go out anywhere like we used to.she barely calls me anymore.i just want her back.

2007-07-29 08:26:03 · 5 answers · asked by mcready777 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-29 08:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been in this relationship for about 2 yrs and some months now we have a two year old daughter together and i'm ready to get married we are engaged already but i'm wantig to be the wife now and he said he's not ready yet first of all he said he never wanted to get married but he said there's something about me and everytime i mention the M word we argue and I only have given myself until May of 2008 and If i'm not married by then i will leave him cause maybe he not the one for me what should i do

2007-07-29 08:23:21 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

while my girlfriend of three months was over at my apartment recently, i left my diary on the kitchen table. and while i was in the bathroom, she opened it and read parts from it. It turns out that the page she read contained information about her she did not like. I wrote : " she has two kids from another relationship and no formal education yet she wants to have another kid with me. How are we gonna take care of all these kids... when i came out i saw her put the diary away. but she denied she had read anything. two weeks later she exploded in anger about how i dont love her and wrote all these things about her wanting to have kids with me. who is at fault here. my girlfriend who read my diary without my permission or me for writing unflattering things about her in my diary? she claims i should not have left it in the kitchen so she is not guilty of invading my privacy rather am guilty of writing bad things about her i have no business writing.

2007-07-29 08:21:55 · 30 answers · asked by Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

I need it to be free, recent songs, and not needing to download it please i'm in desperate need of sheet music. AND PIANO please

2007-07-29 08:20:15 · 1 answers · asked by Lil Swimmer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 13 and in the 8th grade! All of my friends have boyfriends! I dont know why I dont have one? Im not really ugly haha But I have red hair..Is that why? I dont get it lol Im not really mean either!

2007-07-29 08:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I came across and old flame (online) after 10+ years. If a guy was only saying hello to be polite and had no interest in maybe going out one night to catch up then there is noway he'd give his ex his cell #....am I right? I think it would have been more like saying hello and see what the person's been up to and leave it like that..... if a guy has no interest in seeing the person again (even as friends) he would not give the person his cell #. Tell me if I am wrong.... should I hold out hope of seeing him again?

2007-07-29 08:19:19 · 2 answers · asked by olivia200170 1 in Singles & Dating

last night i was talking to my friend and i was making this story and then he got mad and i dont know why. i keep saying sorry and he wont message me back or im me back or anything. ill call him and i say please please dont hang up but he does anyway. so what else can i do?

2007-07-29 08:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by thnkpink993 1 in Friends

help me please i like a guys whos older than me i think me might ike me but idk he wont go out with me b/c hes too old and his dad wouldnt approve of it my moms fine with it but he says its not really legal but i think he likes me but doesnt want his dad to be mad at him what do i do do i go out only with a group of friends or just let him go p.s. i really think i like him alot!!helpme please!!

2007-07-29 08:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by confusedchick 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a man not to be interested in sex at the age of 25yrs.

2007-07-29 08:13:46 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating