help me please i like a guys whos older than me i think me might ike me but idk he wont go out with me b/c hes too old and his dad wouldnt approve of it my moms fine with it but he says its not really legal but i think he likes me but doesnt want his dad to be mad at him what do i do do i go out only with a group of friends or just let him go p.s. i really think i like him alot!!helpme please!!
2007-07-29 08:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by confusedchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps i think he likes me too and i really l ike him should i get to know him more as a friend and be friends for a while first !!???
2007-08-01 15:41:14 · update #1
jail bait
2007-07-29 08:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by coot 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r wiiling to enter into this relationship, then u must know that this guy is in a bit more different environment, wht i mean by that is, most guy at this age r already engaging in sexual activities, if u ready for such serious stuff, then go right ahead,i don mean he is, but he could be right, or m i wrong, anyway, it all depends what u want from the relationship, be sure, so that u don have ur actions conflicting with ur priorities so that u don feel bad nothing.
2007-08-05 21:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont do it. i was dating my bf and even tho my parents approve my dad was forced to report to the police that we were dating and just thank god me and him never did anything sexual cause he could go to jail. it doesnt matter if your mom approves. just please im begging you dont date him you will regret it when people find out and the police get involved. ive been crying all night. i never realized how much i loved him until tonight and my dad said he had to take me to the sheriffs office. please wait until your 16 or 18 depending on which state you live in. just be good friends and hang out with each other with a group of people. trust me. i know it seems like it sucks that you cant be with him right now but you have no idea, it can be worse.
2007-07-29 08:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. i know exactly how you feel. i'm almost 14.. lol. i had a thing for this 16-year-old.. and another one, too. but 16 isn't that old.. 18, honey.. that's how people get raped.. if you are gonna take a chance and go out with him, make sure that it's a group date, or a double.. you can never be too carefull. You never know how well you know a person.
2007-08-06 07:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by mysterygirl08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you but if he had any sense at all he wouldn't lead you on, I'm a guy and this 19 year is only looking for one thing and then you won't see him until he needs you again. Trust me he is going to play games with you, and you are far to young for his raging Testosterone.
2007-08-06 01:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Military Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in this situation EXCEPT my parents dont like my boyfriend and he's turning 20 this year. but i really think that he should give it a shot even if his dad or whoever doesnt approve because he's an adult and no one can really tell him what to do. and age honestly shouldnt matter. good luck =]
2007-08-06 04:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. his dad knows that it is not legal and it may get him in trouble if he dates a minor. if you guys are friends wait 3 more years. it seems like a long time but it will go by quickly. for now date someone your age and be safe. good luck! :)
2007-07-29 08:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age is nothing if he likes you then theres a chance if he dosent then sorry to hear that the only way to find out ask him
then when you know that he likes you i am sure you can come back and post yet another question for us to answer till then thats the most i think anyone can help you
really hope he likes you neednt pick me just listen to my advice please ask him or nothing else can start and do it quick before another girl gets to him first
2007-08-06 03:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, then you should respect his decision to date you when you're older. Depending on what state you're in, it is illegal for him to date you. So why not wait?
If what you guys feel is real, then it'll be that way three years from now, right?
2007-08-06 04:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out in a group of people for a while, when you become 18 think about dating him if you are still interested in him
2007-08-05 22:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hang out together with groups that should be ok until you can evaluate the situation a lil better.
2007-08-06 07:40:22 · answer #11 · answered by sexylovelet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋