My best friend is having a real problem, she wants her and her bf to break up, but SHE doesn't want to do it, she wants him to break up w/ her, she's been asking me what to do, and I'm clean outta advice....what can I tell her??
2007-07-29 08:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Bean♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has been asking you wath to do?
I'll give you my best advise on waht to do, stay out of it........:)
Seriously, if she wants it to be over, then she needs to do it, not sure what reason anyone would have for wanting someone else to be the bad guy, but let her handle it....
2007-07-29 08:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is tough.ive tried to have many of my bfs break up with me nd sometimes it workd.sometimes it didnt..[1] she could not talk as much in a conversation like on the fone and computer so could just be boring and sort of unresponsive(this worked) [2] you could, if she has a myspace, comment all the guys on her friends list so theyll comment her back and start talking to them more to get him jealous(this worked) [3] dont answer his calls or IMs for a while [4] start b***hing about everything and any little thing that annoys you [5] or you could just tell them straight up that you dont think its working nemore nd that u wanna be friends [6] tell them you like someone else (this worked) [7] tell them your a lesbian (this worked haha) -hope it helps
2007-07-29 08:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by britney s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get some balls and do it herself. Many don't want to be the bearer of bad news and hurt anothers feelings. But in the long run, they are wasting the other persons time and leading them on-which is a lot worse. If she doesn't want to be with him-break it off. You should never try to get someone else to do it. They both will end up miserable.
2007-07-29 08:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy broke up with me by voicemail, I would be thankful that I had the gutless wonder out of my life and look forward in anticipation to the joys of being single and eventually meeting a real man. The good thing about experiences like this is that whilst you may not know what you do want in a man, you certainly know what you don't want!
2016-05-17 06:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that sooner or later she needs to grow up and get, the common saying "balls". Her saying with this guy may be hurting him, he may think that they are in a rough patch and he may try to fix it, not break up with her. And if she can't have the gull to break up with her boyfriend, she shouldn't even date.
2007-07-29 08:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok seriously, you stay out of it , you being in it will cause problems. She needs to do it ; or have someone else do it for her. Just let her do it ; I mean just tell her to talk to him and break up kindly.
2007-07-29 08:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Em[ily] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to say I Love You,I Care About You and treat him nicely. That is how my ex broke up with me and i didnt even want him to break up with me . I loved him.
2007-07-29 08:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to watch the movie " How to loose a guy in ten days." And do the same things she does .
2007-07-29 08:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL ok, tell your friend to look the guy straight in the eye and say... That was a waste of my time, just after they have sex.
2007-07-29 08:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that well u r going to have to say...
look there is something i need to tell you you arent the one for me and i apprecatite it we can just be friends!
2007-07-29 08:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋