Im 13 and in the 8th grade! All of my friends have boyfriends! I dont know why I dont have one? Im not really ugly haha But I have red hair..Is that why? I dont get it lol Im not really mean either!
2007-07-29 08:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great, nice people don't get dates in high school it's just a fact.
Girls that are easy, popular, etc. Get dates.
(you would think guys would jump at a nice, cute, caring, girl but it just doesn't happen in high-school. Guys are just to immature at that age. And guys shouldn't be a fad.
Besides guys in high-school are morons. They just date the pretty girl the don't care about personalty, yet.
And don't worry you have plenty of time. your only 13. Don't worry about it.
2007-07-29 08:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I know for sure you're not lying about your age
Why do you want a boyfriend simply because all your friends have them? At the risk of sounding old (even though I'm only 22) I will say it anyway...if all your friends had rashes would you want one too?
Don't worry about your red hair. Find a boy that you like and who likes you back. Then at least having a boyfriend will mean something rather than just having one so you're not the only girl without one.
2007-07-29 15:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by JubJub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i had the same problem except for the red hair thing they just want to be with the popular one or what ever but soon they will relise the popular one is probably the most least one they want....anyways just give it some time or u can try to make the first move
2007-07-29 15:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not because of your hair color. Red hair is beautiful & I'm sure you too!!! You are 13, enjoy it. Boy friends can come later(and they will). Number one rule in life....be true to yourself and all else will fall into place. Way to much peer pressure today. Don't fall for it. Enjoy your friends, your life and all that it entails.
2007-07-29 15:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by cindy2day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 a bf needs to be the least of your concerns. You have so much more that you need to be worried about and you are worried about not having a bf?? Grow up sweetie!!
2007-07-29 15:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13 too and i'm going to be in 9th grade so i know what you're going through. i constantly worry about my looks and everything that might be unappealing. so, all i have to tell you is just wait. be patient. if you believe in god, then he'll bring the right guy to you and the right time.
here's a song you should listen to. it sorta fits into what you're going through and how someone out there is waiting for you too: http://youtube.com/watch?v=HZWPsEsCcxE
2007-07-29 15:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by iishhereee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient you will have plenty of boyfriends. dont stress yourself over it. continue to be nice, friendly, respect yourself, and be confident. before you know it you will have a better relationship than your friends. the color of you hair has nothing to do with it. if you have a good attitude people will like you. remember to be safe. good luck! :)
2007-07-29 15:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at it from another view... when u get a boyfriend it would be special.
if you get one just because everyone has one then you'll end up with someone you don't want or not really in too...
so wait until YOURS is ready.
2007-07-29 15:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have a boyfriend eventually. Just be yourself and don't worry about it.
2007-07-29 15:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by tinypp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either your not trying hard enough and putting yourself out there or your just not pretty enough, post a pic if you want people to judge you i would
2007-07-29 15:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Matt C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋