he LOVES to be submissive and wants to serve and be ruled by a woman...should i rule him?

Question

im talking to this hot white guy who is into the d&s lifstyle(dominance &submission).
he says he loves to be controlled and told what to do and that he loves taking orders and he need a girlfriend who he can worship.
he told me that his last girlfriend was his ruler but she begin to get abusive(slapping,punching e.t.c)
he told me that his last girlfriend ordered him to sleep on a hard floor with no sheet...and like the OBEDIENT submissive guy he is he did it.he loves to be at a woman's beck and call 24/7/365.i asked him just to test him...i said to him ..."if i called him at 3 am asking 4 him 2 drive up to ohio from new jersey to see me would you do it and he said yeah cause he love to be obedient.i dont live in ohio though i just ask him that to see what he say.
now this sounds like fun to get involved in something like this but at the same time im not used to being controlling but i wanted to try it....what u guys think...should i try it.....you only live once?

Answer 1

yell yea u should try it. if that guy likes to be controlled well give him what he wants

Answer 2

Do yourself a favor..make sure you educate yourself on being a Domme first. That in no way means you can take advantage of the guy.His submissiveness is a gift to you..not something for you to abuse to get your kicks from.

You have to know what your doing properly, and there has to be trust. For many..this is not a game where you only live once..but a real life style choice.And there is alot involvement in it..most are very committed to the scene and do not take lightly someone there just to use someone. Google some bdsm sites..look for your local kink community..see if this is something you really want to explore. But..if this is just for bedroom play..well..then it is different..have a bit of fun..but make sure he gets his fun too..

Answer 3

Live life girl, there is no harm in being a dominatrix. That is the role you would be taking on. It is a role and there is no harm done to any partners involved. So go ahead and enjoy. I do it every now and then, it's a really good feeling and it's fun. You won't know unless you try it, and you only live once gurl, so do the damn thing (smile.)

Answer 4

Ofcourse take him he is just another sweet guy after all and its even better that your not controlling.You are most likely a compasionate person if you dont want to control him so you wont abuse him or over do it too much just the right person for the job he is lucky he came across you or else think maybe he might be with another controlling over demanding girl who would bully him day and night.

good luck from another guy who likes being controlled

Answer 5

go for it as long as it feels okay TO YOU
guys as we all know are pervs but since this is something thats apart of his life you have to wonder what else he might be into you know howthey say either marijuna or crack is a gate way drug? well what if this is a gateway sexual desire

its better that YOU would be the one in control instead of vice versa so if it seems okay go for it

Answer 6

That's the type of nut case that makes a huge paycheck. Hell yeah! Command him to hand over his money, then whip the hell out of him

Answer 7

well don't play with his heart if you are sincere then go ahead. but if you are not too happy with this type of arrangement then forget it. there can be real problems if you do this when you get tired and throw him away and that is not what he wants take care

Answer 8

if you rule him then you'll get bored because you need a man that you would feel strong and secure around.
not a man who expect you to be the strong one all the time...

Answer 9

if that's your thing go for it and have fun how many men want us to control them

Answer 10

it can be a lot of fun but not on a daily basis